we have been together not very long and i am really confused..
2006-06-22 08:40:43 · 29 answers · asked by lovin_me14020 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your relatioship is on hold what the hell does that mean, if you haven't been with him that long and he put it on hold? well i would leave and be like forget it... any way why he out the relatiohship on hold? Is he not ready or what? You shouldn't wait move on and find someone who is sure.
2006-06-22 08:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
On hold means you aren't together and that he is fooling around with someone else. Don't let some guy control you this way. He either wants to be with you and only you or you move on. If he can't be with you then it is his loss and you shouldn't put your life on hold just so he can make a run at some other girl while you sit there doing nothing and being his second choice.
2006-06-22 08:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say confront him and tell him that you aren't going to put up with this. Either he wants to be with you or he doesn't. Putting a relationship "on hold" is just a sorry excuse for him to go out with other girls and not feel guilty or have you breathing down his neck.
2006-06-22 08:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you "hold the sex" also. Don't let him take advantage of your vunerability until you are clear about what he want from this relationship. It's a tough question hun, ask him exactally what he means by on "hold". Good luck
2006-06-22 08:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your a 747 circling DFW you are not eligible for the "holding" pattern. Your boyfriend for what ever reason "Cheating comes to mind" has made a bilateral choice and he is only half of the bi. Did he give a valid explanation and how long this hiatus was suppose to last. Fer-it out the bull crap cause it smells like your getting a barnyard full!
2006-06-22 08:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking this question? I hope that you are not sitting at home waiting for this fool to call you!!! HELLOOOOOOO!!! HOLD means he is out hoing around and having fun with friends or some chick who will do anything for a Happy Meal. Relationships do not get put on HOLD. Phones get put on hold. Tell him to take a flying leap off a bridge and then go find you a real man who wants to be with you.
2006-06-22 08:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is "NO" such thing as on hold, either he loves you and wont to be with you or he don't. From what you say, "he don't" his lost and your gain. Move on and lean not unto your own understanding, God does everything for a reason.
2006-06-22 08:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Prissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"On hold" means he is looking for an excuse to get some on the side, or he lacks the courage to be straight with you. Blow him off and see what happens. At the lesat you will have the power for dumping him...on the other side, he will be forced to make a decision that he wants you.
Good Luck.
2006-06-22 08:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by ICL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but "He's just not that into you." He would't want to put it on hold if he was. Don't be his back up. End it!
2006-06-22 08:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by MATTHEW M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You're worth more than "hold"
2006-06-22 08:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Krn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋