Would you be with a guy who is more good looking then you or with a guy who is less good looking then you?
guys would you be with a girl who is more good looking then you or with a girl who is less good looking then you?
WHY AND WHY NOT?
2006-06-22 08:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK PEOPLE I DONT WANT TO KNOW HOW GREAT ARE YOU BY SAYING ITS NOT ABOUT LOOKS.WHICH IS A BIG FAT LIE.I AM ASKING SOMETHING ELSE HERE,YOU HAVE 2 OPTIONS.
2006-06-22 08:45:45 · update #1
I personally would prefer a guy less good looking then me.they are more safe:)
2006-06-22 09:04:19 · update #2
I dont really care about looks. I am confindence with who and what I am and how I look. I need a girl from the heart. Its what in the heart that really counts. Looks helps but its not everything. Like my mama always said "if you are not Rama, then stop looking for Sita"..............ha ha ha.......
2006-06-23 05:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, i have a theory...I think that guys that are nines (1-10) and above are less safe. I have had two boyfriends in the past that were beyond breathtaking and they were dogs. I think more average joes are the way to go. Sure, you'll find a few really hot guys that are down to earth but usually they know how hot they are. And some take it as a license to step all over you. Of course, there are dogs that are hideous. Lot of them...but you can spot them a mile away. The trick is to find someone you really connect with. Someone with a big heart and loves you for you. Looks are second to that.
2006-06-22 08:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is the perception of each individual so who can say who's better looking. I think those who like to be with people who they perceive to be less attractive than themselves do so because of a little insecurity and they figure if they are with someone who isn't attractive then no-one will try to steal them away. I think that more confident people like to go for the more attractive partner. Saying all that though, to a lot of people it's what's on the inside that counts...to a point. Hope this helps!
2006-06-22 08:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, naturally(guys especially)we look for someone who looks better than us, someone who is smarter, and someone who has a better take on Life than us---it's what makes us want to better ourselves. But, speaking realistically, a girl rarely fits all the aforementioned descriptions, so to answer your question, no, I couldn't care less whether or not a girl is more or less attractive than me, just as long as she's got something else that I don't have(but should), such as the ability to control her anger and speak rationally. I think we, purposely or not, tend to seek out mates who can tweak our flaws and make us better individuals. At least that's what I do every time I'm scanning a crowd for females.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-22 08:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on his personality. If he was better looking than me and was a little shy I would, but if he was better looking and super flirtatious, I wouldn't because I have trust issues and self esteem issues. I would go for a guy that is slightly less good looking than me, but not overly less. He also would have to have a great personality and be interesting because it's not always looks that count!
2006-06-22 08:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on who I loved, looks are not the most important part of a person it's the whole package.
2006-06-22 08:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so ugly I don't there is a girl who is less good looking than me.
2006-06-22 08:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever one makes me happy, i think most people would want an attractive person but what good is it if they don't make u happy, corny as it may sound the real beauty is what's inside.
2006-06-22 08:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go with personality this can make a person good looking.
2006-06-22 08:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want one who's better lookin than I am so I can look at her rather than lookin at myself.
2006-06-22 14:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋