I have been havin phonesex with several gulz (friends) and they tend to love it .when they fil lik havin it without physical contact or were not certisfied by their man the give me a call and i treat them right.........pliz help cauz am losing it. i love my girlfriend and we enjoy doin it together.think hard on this....... thanx
2006-06-22 08:25:08 · 34 answers · asked by mr le-roy reliable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes your cheating because cheating begins with the mere thought. but worse you lowered yourself from being a man to a sexual device. Think about it you aid a person to perform masturbation - which makes you a vibrator. and I am not saying this to offend you but rather opening your eyes to what you make yourself look like. Man have some respect for yourself. I am sure you will get upset thinking i am trying to be a smart A ss at your expense but no I am only trying to help.
2006-06-22 08:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are cheating on her. It doesn't matter that you're not having physical contact with these girls. If you love your girlfriend, why are you doing this phone sex in the first place? You don't do things like that when you love someone.
2006-06-22 08:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are cheating on her, period.
When you cross the line that separate friend and "the third guy", that's cheating. By having phone sex with your other girlfriends, you are sharing something intimiate with them which shouldn't be share between friend.
You should stop this before you start to lose everything.
2006-06-22 08:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- and your gf will think so too.
Your choices are:
Stop this behavior and love your gf exclusively
Get her to join you in a conference call with one of these girly-friends
Have her do you while you are on the phone with your girly-phone friends
2006-06-22 08:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u r cause how would you like it if ur girlfriend did that with other guys. n also both u n the person on the other line r imagining the same thing so its like u r cheating. you need to STOP!!
2006-06-22 08:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you hidin it from your girl? thats a big qust. can be cons. cheatin if hidin, girls feel like they are bein lied to then there a reason, becareful if you reelly love her cause can end up in a lonely and hurt point, havin sex on phone tec. is not but to hide it from her or lie can be.
2006-06-22 08:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my man, I would be pissed. I'm not sure how your girlfriend is, is she the jealous type? You may want to run it past her and say that your friend is doing it, and see if she calls him a dog and gets mad. If she does, you'll stop if you don't want to lose her. Put yourself in her shoes...
2006-06-22 08:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're cheating on her - it's called an emotional affair and it's just as wrong as a physical affair!
2006-06-22 08:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by elenor.ferris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any type of sex that does not involve your girlfriend is cheating. You need counseling. If you love your girl so much then prove that to her and only her.
2006-06-22 08:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cheating. Stop with the phone calls.
2006-06-22 08:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋