I've been through some stuff and I just need time to heal but I recently met this guy and I really think he may be the one and I think I messed it up because I just told him that I was scared. Does anyone out there believe that there's more than just one Mr. Right or did I just like totally screw up?
2006-06-22 08:11:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is most certainly more than one Mr. Right.
We are such complex people there's no way ONLY ONE person could be considered a good fit.
Nor do I believe that there is a fated partner for everyone. If we are really destined to be with someone, then we will be. There would be nothing you could do to change that.
Take the time you need. You'll be a better person for it, and will therefore have a more rewarding relationship down the road.
2006-06-22 08:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure there are more than 1 Mr. Rights. If he is the right one though he will understand what you are dealing with and be willing to go slow until you heal. There is nothing wrong with being scared after bad things happen and to be a little cautious about jumping back in. Kudos to you for realizing that you need time to heal before moving on! Relax and heal, if this one isn't the right one there WILL be another one when the time is right.
2006-06-22 08:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kwk2lrn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can make anyone your Mr Right. If that guy left just cause you said you were scared or not ready, than that means that he isn't Mr Right. So just let yourself heal, cause that's what you said you needed, and when you're ready to start going out with guys again, you'll meet the Mr Right that you've been waiting for, not just the Mr Right-now. Hope this helps.
2006-06-22 08:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is Mr Right he will respect your history, understand that you are scared and give you time to heal. So don't worry that you have screwed things up, it may just be a perfect test for guys. The good one will stay.If not, don't cry about him, the he is not the one.
2006-06-22 08:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think there is such a thing as "Mr. Right" . I think people especially Women make these "ideas" up from watching to much Oprah or reading to many Harlequin's . People do fall in love with each other, there's no doubt there. But I also believe that when you fall in love with someone that the thing that made you fall in love with that person doesn't just evaporate away, you still can fall in love again. So I guess my answer to your 1st part of your question is "yes" there is more than one Mr.Right ( you can fall in love again) 2nd part of your question...who knows?....you won't get a chance to know either if you don't give it a try.
2006-06-22 08:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by whiteknight_32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think your on the right track...at least your thinking before your acting...Although he may be a better choice than your previous one, just not right now, by being honest with yourself and others that will lead you to the right time...who knows when your ready Mr. Maybe could pop back into your life at the right time...good luck...be patient.
2006-06-22 08:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain why you are scared. If he is a decent guy he should understand that. To answer your question there may be several Mr Rights out there. However, the chances of meeting all of them is rare. Take what you can get and appreciate it.
2006-06-22 08:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by williejuly1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think if you were honest which appears to me you were and if he is indeed Mr. right he will go out of his way to show you there is nothing to be scared of.
best advice I can give you is be yourself, take your time, believe in yourself and do not allow anyone to rush you into anything you are not ready for. No man or woman is worth changing for and no man or woman is right for you if they can not accept you the way you are totally and is willing to wait for you no matter how long the wait. because my dear if he is Mr. right then that would make you his Mrs right.
best of luck in finding your happiness.
2006-06-22 08:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is only one MR RIGHT but I also belive that if he is MR RIGHT you will know from the begining and wont pass him up no matter what is going on. So if you passed him up I dont think it was MR RIGHT i think it was mr right now
2006-06-22 08:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that there maybe at least two, but maybe you should talk to him and tell him why you are scared and just have a conversation and let him get to know you and get to know him and if you're still scared after really getting to know him and he still sticks around then you know he's mr. right.
2006-06-22 08:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋