i just got asked out by this totely hidious guy but the problem is hes really nice but i don't like em how do i tell him no without completely crushing him
2006-06-22 07:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by april s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Oh, thanks for asking, but I don't have the same feelings for you. It's very sweet of you to ask, but no."
Do this privately, and never discuss it with your friends or anyone else. What is "crushing" to boys is the humiliation of girls talking about them and saying things like, "eww, gross, he asked me out but I wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole," etc.
Just have a little respect for both him and yourself and you'll be fine. Remember that you are helping him to learn that life goes on after disappointments, which is critical to building confidence.
2006-06-22 08:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
another girl that would would choose a guy with huge muscles and a 6 pack of abs that beat and cussed her all the time over a not so good looking guy that was a little overweight and didn't have nice style, but treated her as if she were an angel. you make the world what it is today. women who complain about their man not treating them with respect and why nice guys don't have the courage to ask a girl out. thanks for all your help girl.
2006-06-22 15:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by likeafatkidlovescake2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not give him the line "we're just friends". It would be better to kill him. Go out with him on a first date and trry to let him understand that you don't feel for him the way he does for you. But do it on the first date, don't give him hope for a second date. Don't be one of those b*tches who thinks she's too good for any man. In the end he has a heart too.
2006-06-22 15:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell him the truth honesty is the best thing to have and its best to be honest wit someone u tell him that ur sorry but u dont like him that way but u would love to be friends wit him and if u become friends u never kno u might start to like him and yall might end up datin so just be honest wit him and tell him yall can be friends good luck
2006-06-22 15:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you have a boyfriend, you're not looking to date anyone right now, you're in a long distance relationship, you're moving soon, whatever. just be nice to him...tell him, "awww, you're a really sweet guy, BUT(throwing in an excuse).
2006-06-22 15:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will only go out with rich hidous guys, and hell you might even marry him
2006-06-22 15:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just like that. He should move on and so should you
2006-06-22 15:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lead him on that's cruel
be honest with him be not mean he'll be hurt at first but later he might just appreciate that you didn't lie to him
2006-06-22 15:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by swddrb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell him your not interested in him that way - HONESTY is ALWAYS BEST
2006-06-22 15:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by kaije03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your dating someone
2006-06-22 15:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by K-Def 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋