Deep down does he like me?

Question

I am 14 and my 8th grade school year has ended but like every person i
wonder what things woulded have been like if i done them differently as
i look back at my school year one crush comes to mind and my friends
helped me to get noticed by him by writing a note.(i know i was to scared
to do it myself)And he gave me his phone number and said it didnt mean
he liked me.And i was like oh. during that day he was always staring at
me.That night i called him and we talked for a pretty long time and his
brother got on the phoneand was like i hope you're not talking to no
ugly gurl then he(my crush and his brother) stared saying mean things
about me.And i was like whatever.then i hung up the phone and before then
he said dont tell NOBODY about THIS.And i didnt.the next day the
teacher changed the seating arangment and he had to sit by me and he was
going crazy cause he really didnt want to sit by me and the teacher made
him.During class he kept calling me ugly and all sorts of things.then one
day he really pissed me off i was like why dont you like me and he just
said it was out of the question.My friends told me that he was telling
people that i liked him and thay'ed say ewwwwwww. . . you want to go
with her!??!And some of his friends were like why wont you go with her
she's smart(and im not great shape just to let you know but people say
that im cute for a plus size gurl)His name is Mon(not really that's just
what everybody calls him)For the rest of the schoold year he would
tease me like crazy but before i told him i liked him he was very nice to
me.but after i told him all of sudden he was just plain mean sometimes
i'd get lucky and he would try to sit by me then the teacher would tell
him to move.My friends told me to forget him and that i could do so
much better and that he wasnt good enough for me anyway(even a couple of
boys said that to,lol)Can you tell me why he acted like that.

Answer 1

i can tell you that hes an idiot. i think he judged you by how you look rather than get to know you, the real you. i think he acted the way he did cause he didnt want to be outcast by his friends and to be taunted by other peers. people now hold their reputations up high, ego maniacs. just keep your head up and dont let anyone put you down. there are much better people out there so just forget about that dude. good luck and take care!

Answer 2

A very long and interseting story. i believe that he loves you. I think he acted like that because maybe he wasn't expecting you to like him. He is just acting that he hates you because he doesn't know what to do in this situation, or so his friends would think that he's tough and handsome to girls. He's a freak and a sicko, don't like him. He doesn't deserve you or anybody. You should find someone else so much better and cuter. He embarrassed you so you should embarrass him back, next year if he teases you again, if you have something sticky , dump it on his head, then everybody knows that you don't like him anymore and they won't talk about you liking him or how disgusting you are. I hate him so much.

I hope this answers the question

Answer 3

Yes, he likes you, but boys at your age are way, way, WAY too young to be able to understand all the changes happening in their minds, emotions, and bodies. So they do things like give you their number, or follow you around, and then turn mean when their friends are around. They want to appear dominant or in control with their friends, but they also want very badly to kiss you and plenty more.

My advice to you - as someone who was once a teenaged boy - is to WAIT for a good long while before you start hanging out with boys or "dating." You're still too young, and trust me, THEY are far, far "younger" than you in terms of emotional and cognitive development. It's best to let them catch up a little. Meanwhile, have fun with your girl friends, talk about boys, whatever.

There will be plenty of boys for you and the best thing you can do for yourself is to grow up confident and strong, knowing you can be on your own and succeed. That's the most attractive thing ever to successful, well-balanced, healthy men, and that's what you want in your life later on. You have to prepare for that now by growing up with the confidence to be on your own.

Good luck!

Answer 4

first of he is that typpa kido he must be a kid at dfntly he is a kid ..but he is that typpa ppl who when pay attention to 'em they cross their limit ..he might like u but still he is a kid and he wants to act so cool ..so all u need to do just act so normal like dont get attitude be so sweet but dont give a Fl_lck ..like dont call him ne more like go out with some one els ..what ever he says answer him back nicly but all of a sudden when he is talkin to u in the middle of his speech talk about some of ur friends accident if he tried to be so nice ..nice back but never give a **** after some times he will be ok but it sould be so later for him ....keep it in ur mind if u go after guyz they keep runnin away ...dont run after them let them run after u ..what ever u are whether ur guly or pretty doznt matter u have got ur own attitude n ur own personality ....put these kinda kiddo on ur Dont Give A Fl_lck list

good luck

Answer 5

I'd say he probably liked you, and he was afraid of what other people would think. Keep in mind, boys at that age are not as matture as girls are and they do weird things at that point in there life.