I have been with my GF for 7 years, we are still young i am 24 she is 25. I have been with other people and she says she hasn't. A month ago today she told me she wanted to take a break. She is in Med School and about take the boards(huge life changing test) she has not been intimate with me over the past few months..did i mention we have almost always been in a long distance relationship? We have been through tough times and she seems like she is willing to work things out, but not right now...everyone, including her is telling me not to put my life on hold. She isn't cheating, she still loves me but is says she is not in love right now and can't promise she will be, but wants us to be together. Whats her deal? why is she being so selfish?
2006-06-22 07:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by dave g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for being somewhat positive and thorough
2006-06-22 07:53:36 · update #1
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2006-06-22 10:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by SuNnY BlOnDe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should not make any decisions based on other people. People give their opinions very decidedly, but we are all different. The place it seems you are in right now is really tough, but I would say stick it out and be there for each other- as friends and as two people who care and love each other. I would never tell someone to move on from someone who could be their future partner and they could lose forever in doing so. If you are there for her during the rough times (Boards) no matter what happens you will gain from it. You will have known you tried your very best and wont wonder what if. Or you will be even closer after it all. Its hard to try and be close to someone and not put your life on hold at the same time. But if you can be there for her while still living your life I say do it. 7 years is a long time to give up. I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years (not that thats the same) but we went through a massive amount of things and went on breaks, had slumps in intimacy and now we are together...in the same city- learning how to be around each other all the time...and working through a whole new set of things. The key is to team up and work together against the problem not let it come between you. Ok, I have to leave it at that I feel for you though...I could say a lot more. I hope the best for you and whatever happens between you and your girlfriend.
2006-06-22 16:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she cares about you since you've been together for 7 years. You must really love each other. Give her a break she has important things going on in her life than she values a lot. I think your being selfish not her because she just wants to have a life and a good career.
2006-06-22 14:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-06-22 14:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by likeafatkidlovescake2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have an advice or ya, MOVE ON
2006-06-22 14:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she found sumbody else
2006-06-22 14:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.
2006-06-22 14:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋