it aint like i am stuck up or nething, ppl say i am funny! so why do u think thisis?
2006-06-22 07:41:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a girl likes u.... shouldnt she ask u out as much as a you shud ask her out?
2006-06-22 07:46:39 · update #1
btw... iv never asked a girl out either LOL =P
2006-06-22 07:47:23 · update #2
It could be that they are intimidated by you, if you have girls saying you are cute why don't you ask them out? Saying your cute might be their way of making the first move.
2006-06-22 07:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kellidoscope 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think maybe it has to do with your confidence. Girls can tell when a man is confident in himself and that's usually their best trait.You have to exude this kinda " I know who I am and where I stand in this world" and the chicks will love it. You also have to know what kinda girls you're into. If you have no idea then the right chick will never come along and if she does you will not know it. Now by confidence I DO NOT mean " Oh look at how hot I am or my nice pecs" I just mean that you know who you are because girls will not like to help you determine your place in the world. We are only there to shelter you, nurture you, and keep you satisfied. So please take this advice and run with it. MOST OF ALL be yourself. I know that it sounds corny but trust me It works, and pays off big time in the end! Good Luck!
2006-06-22 07:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're too much of a pu*s*sy to ask them out?
Dude... grow some stones and get out there. All those really beautiful girls almost NEVER get asked out because guys are so intimidated by them. Get some confidence going and go for it.
The day you realize that it doesn't mean anything about you that some number of girls says no for every one who says yes will be the best day of your life. It's also the day when the number who say no starts to drop like a rock.
2006-06-22 07:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you need to be a man and ask the girl out not the other way around.
2006-06-22 07:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by shiftcomma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are waiting for you to ask them out.
I personally would never ask a guy out, some girls though don't mind doing that.
2006-06-22 07:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by YES24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are supposed to ask the girls out not the other way around. We don't like to ask the guys out unless we have to. So why don't you just ask a girl out?
2006-06-22 07:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cute isn't the only thing that attracts people.. in fact it shouldn't even really be a factor considering your personality is what really counts.. besides that fact, people are still growing up in high school, have their own insecurities, and it is only the beginning of your love life.. don't fret about it.. and also.. most girls wait for the guy to ask them out so maybe thats why you dont have luck.. i know i usually waited around for the guy to ask me
2006-06-22 07:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the others said...you need to ask the girls out, very few are the type that are comfortable having that the other way around.
2006-06-22 07:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by partlycloudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a difference in cute and hott. but if that isn't the problem maybe you just weren't their type? also, girls can tend to be very VERY shallow. especially in the highschool years! Also, like everyone else said...it's up to the guy to ask the girl out.
2006-06-22 07:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by messagebeliever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what \'s ur personality like? do you put your family and friends down? do you talk about peeps behind their backs? if so, a girl will see this. no one wants to go out with someone like that. also...traditionaly, the guy asks the girl. just walk up to a girl you like and ask her out. the worst she can say is no. i mean, there are a billion girls in the world...you'll have your chance with one eventually
2006-06-22 07:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by ciara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you're afraid to ask a chick out you have to remember its a numbers game. Not every chick is going to go out with you. If you ask enough you'll get plenty of rejection but you'll also get plenty of dates.
You have to be a man. If you wait for girls to ask you out you will spend your high school years beating off.
2006-06-22 07:51:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋