i really like him and i know he will ask me out but he goes with different girls and drinks and smokes weed. But its very hard in the spotlight and heat of the moment. Help please?
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2006-06-22 07:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no
if u dont do any of that stuff why should u get tied down with a looser. I know many girls who dont go out with guys just because they smoke. U shouldnt either.
U will find someone better i promise u
xx
2006-06-22 07:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from this guy!! If he's not commit ed enough to stay with one girl then its not worth your time you'll just end up hurt.
Drinking and smoking weed is not the best choices. He might pressure you into it and make u make bad choices. How do you feel about that??
2006-06-22 07:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It might seem cool now if you are a young, but trust me, he sounds like a waste of time. Ask yourself, Where do I want to be in 10-15 years? If it sitting in a grotty council flat surrounded by kids, while him and his mates use it like a hotel, then go ahead. If you are any older than say, 17 then grow up, you should know better.
2006-06-22 07:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"its very hard in the spotlight and heat of the moment"---------take cue from this line of urs and think about it again. sometimes things done in the heat of the moment can cause u gr8 trouble in the long run.
I would say...NEver!
infact this is the time for keeping nerves and deep breathing............think about it with an open and cool mind and u will definitely get the answer!
Otherwise, the choice is urs ....afterall , the life is urs!
2006-06-22 08:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my mate leza got with a guy like that. somehow they moved in together and he started smoking more and taking pills when they went out so in the end they were arguing about it and they split up. people who some that stuff get paronoid and he will start acusing you of all kinds of rubbish. trust me my friend was crying down the phone to me of what he had done for the last 6 months of the realationship.
2006-06-22 07:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to go out with him and knew it was the right thing to do you wouldn't have asked. Have some self respect and say NO. Weed is NOT ok
2006-06-22 07:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by SHARON R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont go out with this guy. I have a friend whos been going out with her boyfriend for 5 years now and he smokes weed and drinks to. Then she had his baybe (on accident, even though she does love him) but thought, oh now that we have a baybe he well mature. NOPE he still does because hes immature, men grow up when they want to. This guy sounds immature and selfish. Dont wast ur time theres so much better out there trust me.
2006-06-22 07:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go out with him. If you do go out with him he might influence you to drink and smoke weed but the other thing is if you do go out with him, you might be able to change his habits and that rarely happens. Follow your heart and do what you think is best for you.
2006-06-22 07:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 'bad boy' syndrome. Guys like this always seem so much more attractive than the ones who aren't like this. Truth is, they are just more trouble than they are worth. Save yourself the emotional rollercoaster and say no.
2006-06-22 22:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're kewl being "one of the" women he's dating then go for it...don't have any expections however...if you have a problem with the drinking and/or smoking then don't waste his or your time...ya gotta take him as he is, or not at all...
2006-06-22 07:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋