ok well there is this guy that im goin out wit and i love him 2 death! hes really hot and sweet. we have been goin out for 3weeks and he kissed another girl! he always tells me he loves me but im always afraid that he will do it again. but i kno wat you all are gonna say "once a cheater always a cheater" ya well thats not good advice! so plzz give me some.
2006-06-22 07:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by ♥hannah banana♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop dating till you grow up, and then find a real man.
2006-06-22 07:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off what kind of kiss was it? A peck or was there tounge involved.
Personally if it was just a peck I do not consider it cheating now if there was tounge involved that is a different story for some people they consider that cheating.
Personally I do not consider it cheating until they have sex with that person or another person. JUst talk to him about it and ask him why he kissed this other girl and if you really trust him then that answer will be ok.
My fiancee has kissed other girls and they are just his friends and I totally trust him I know that he is coming home to me and making love to me not the other women.
Trust is a major part of a relationship if you can not trust him you mide as well tell him to hit the road.
Oh and one other question how old are the two of you?
2006-06-22 07:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly32976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK....so here's the deal...I'm not going to put you down or anything ok? This guy has obviously got problems if he cheated on you... I have just one thing to say to you for advise...
You are an incredible person. If he cheated on you he is probably insecure. He probably thinks that 'gosh what if she starts thinking differently about me?' He is probably afraid that you will think you are to good for him. Talk to him and reassure him. He will understand.
2006-06-22 07:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by grlwiththegreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your boyfriend loves or loved you he wouldn't do anything like that. I would know. He might change he might not change all I am saying now is that you might get hurt. I would get out of it. I have broken up with all my boyfriends that have done that and I am glad. You might get the chance to meet someone knew!
2006-06-22 07:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur bf really loVes u he wouldn't haVe done that so break up with his srry ***.
2006-06-22 07:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by LUST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to kiss another guy, and find how it sounds to you first, and to him second , and then you may have a decision.
2006-06-22 07:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol lol "love him to death" after 3 weeks????? think about that one hun
2006-06-22 07:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋