I love him so much and I don't want to hurt his feelings.
2006-06-22 07:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by pinkeydots 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Offer exercising together. Doing more things outdoors rather than indoors. Since it's spring/summer time, swimming is a great exercise.
2006-06-22 07:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't. At least not that way. It would hurt his feelings and make him less secure about himself. Tell him you want both of you to get in better shape. Join a gym. Learn to cook light. Set a combined goal to lose XX pounds and go to Hedonism II. If he's receptive, he'll say yes and work hard along with you. If not, changing your behavior and the pounds will start to fade away. And if all fails, then you've lost interest and should move on--or learn to love a chubby boy.
2006-06-22 07:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him then you wouldnt care about size or looks.you dont love him you just care about making yourself look good and what you will look like in front of other people.who cares what he looks like. he is comfortable and thought that he was loved. he probably thought that you were the one he could do anything and you would be ok with it, you are obviously not the one and hopfully you find someone thats just like you so you can se how it feels.good luck.
2006-06-22 07:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start working out and tell him your doing it because you want to make sure you maintain your looks for him. He'll catch on really quick.
2006-06-22 07:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him, he's starting to look like a white baloon. And that he needs to deflate a bit.
2006-06-22 07:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal part of life unless your boyfriend is a professional athlete.
2006-06-22 07:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not getting obesed or anything like that then you shouldn't worry about it. It is his body and if you don't like dating fat guys than dump him. He would probably hate you and be very disappointed in you but hey you shouldn't dump someone because they gain a couple of pounds.
2006-06-22 07:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would you take it if your boyfriend told you you looked like you gained weight, your butt was getting big and you definitely were NOT as attractive as you once were???????? Do you hear yourself?
2006-06-22 07:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him any thing!!!!! If you really love him then you would not care about his looks.
2006-06-22 07:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by r.n.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds better comming from someone who love you tell him be kind
2006-06-22 07:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋