why is it so hard to meet someone when you have so much love to give?

Answer 1

HMMMMM........GOOD QUESTION.....I KNOW WHAT U MEAN?

Answer 2

honey it's not hard to meet it's the hard to find the one you want. You will have to look at each person to see if that is someone you want to give to just don't jump to fast. You can meet people ever day and you have to be willing to take the first step

Answer 3

well my dear one, sometimes we think that the more we have to give, the more we deserve to have someone. The reality is that regardless of what lies inside of you, the world continues as it always has. So it's not that it's hard to meet someone because you have so much to give, it's just that you're much more aware of being alone because you want to give so badly.

Sometimes, when people have , or describe themselves as "so much love to give", that's actually a sign of neediness which can scare poeple. People are amazingly intuitive and they don't even realize it. There very well could be a vibe coming from you that says "I want someone that I can smother" and trust me, very few sane people want to be smothered. So I would look at myself and say "what is it that I really need? Is it attention? Affection? Friendship? Support?" and whatever comes to your mind, try and find ways to give that to yourself.

In the end, you are always going to have to give that love to yourself. Someone else is there to enhance it, not be the reason for it. Make sense? So all that love you have to give...... Don't be afraid to give it to yourself. Something tells me that you are...... :) You deserve it, we all deserve love from ourselves. When we don't give ourselves love is when we run into problems. It's a perpetual problem with so many of us.

Answer 4

Its the love you have you want to share
but it can't just be anyone
Its crazy stop & think a min.
put yourself in a girls shoes
a man wants to give all the
unconditional love
not even knowing you yet
Would you think he's taking
a nail out of his heart w/ another one ?
trying to forget a relationship w/ another
it maybe not your case
but then again she doesn't know you
that well

Answer 5

I find i have the same problem, someone told me that probably i'm not looking in the right place, so im telling you the same thing my friend told me. YOUR NOT LOOKING IN THE RIGHT PLACES!!

I hope you find someone to give all your love to though.

Answer 6

I don't Know, i have asked that question before.
Sometimes, Especially now a days, you have to be carefull, and not fall to hard so soon, People will take advantage of you, and jsut break your heart. take your time, things will look up when you think they won't, I promise. Just have fun for now,Good luck.

Answer 7

This question touches my heart. I have felt the same way for years.
I have finally met that person that gives back.
Don't give up hope , it will happen when and where you least expect it.

Answer 8

I honestly don't know. But I know I am still looking. Sometimes I do feel like that when you look hard you don't find no one until you stopp looking. Then out of the blue that person will appear.

Answer 9

its because your looking for love! whenever people are looking they never find anyone, and as soon as your not looking you find that right person for you....... stop trying so hard and you'll meet someone

Answer 10

BECAUSE SOME OF THE PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO HELP THEM WITH THE KIDS OR BILLS.
THE ONES WHO ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE ALWAYS
GET STEPPED ON AND NOT TAKEN SERIOUSLY.

Answer 11

I ALWAYS WONDER THE SAME THING!! and if you do meet someone usually they are as*holes anyway!