y are sum ppl naturally nice.are we born kind or nurtured to be kind?

Question

and if sum ppl are juz born evil, dey cant be blamed for their wrong actions.

Answer 1

Hello lulu.. :)

The Answer is NO..

We are all born with sin in our lives and we cannot blame anyone for our actions..but ourselves..

I used to blame others, my mother, father and others on my life while I growing up..my father was a drunk, and my mother physically abused me as a little child..I never heard about Love and forgiveness..that was not in our home.. :(

Later in life I became a druggie, and a child abuser..so was it my fault or my parents, or because I was born evil..

If any of those were the case, my life would not have done a 360% turn..

Instead of hate, there is Love..instead of anger, there is forgiveness..instead of doubt, there is faith..where there used to be Me first, there is now wanting to help others and put their needs first..

In Jesus Most Precious Name..
With Love..In Christ..

Answer 2

Miss Lulu;

It depends on life circumstances: some people just happen to be born kind, while others are nurtured to be kind--just as you've stated. It all comes down to the whole "Nature VS. Nurture" philosophy that seem to dominate the majority of parenting manuals, books, novels, ect.

Hope this helps!

Grimm_Angel_Zetta
( Aka [e-mail] )

Answer 3

Not another nature vs nurture question. I'll be quick... It's both. You can have a mild mannered child that can be forced into being bad. Though it would be harder, but it is possible that a mean spirited child could grow up to be kind.

People that sell animals like dogs and cats use this mentality all the time. If the mother dog (b****) is cruel, then they won't breed her.

Answer 4

Some people are naturally nicer than others, but nurture certainly plays a role as well.

People who do evil actions pose a threat to me. That's what matters most.

Answer 5

Kindness and respect are things you learn from your parents. If they don't teach you, you grow up to be an ungrateful fool.