You just can not stand the guy around your friends and he is totally rude when you go out. He is an absolute jerk but at the same time he is without a doubt the best sex you have ever had. He is at least twice as skilled as any other guy you have been with. Plus in bed he does everything in his power to please you from total body caressing you to the greatest oral sex all over your body. Do you still dump him? Do you tell your friends he just needs to be understood? Or do you try to break up with him but continue as sexual partners considering he can now have other sexual partners?
2006-06-22 06:54:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him and hang on to him as a "friend with benefits".
2006-06-22 06:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If he was a total jerk, there'd be nothing to "break up" from. However if both were kewl with it being just a sexual relationship, that might be mutually satisfying. As a dating or boyfriend prospect, no way...but then if he's really a jerk that would likely have become apparent before we ever had sex, so I might not have discovered that he was a skillful lover....unless he was also a good enough actor to hide his true personality until we'd become intimate.
2006-06-22 06:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is communication. Have a talk with him and explain the situation, about him being a jerk when out but you love the sex and see if he is willing to compromise. Also, when out have code words that will let him know that he is being a jerk because he may not even realize he is doing this. If not, see if he can be a friend with benefits?
2006-06-22 07:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by beaderlovinglife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is NO way I would hang onto a complete jerk like that even if the sex had me seeing God! There are many other men out there,and if worse comes to worse there are vibrators! So I would have to say I would dump the sorry as*hole. Sex isn't everything!!!
2006-06-22 07:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by flirtygirl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my perspective, which is I was looking for a life partner (luckily found him).If I can't stand the guy now, I definitely won't be able to live with him ever.The sex couldn't possibly be as good as having the true emotional connection AS WELL as the physical, so I'd do away with him all together.
2006-06-22 07:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him be your fling if you can handle that without getting attached....because he probably doesnt like hanging out with your friends anyways if he is a total jerk...so just have the sex...do him a favor and let him know that he doesnt have to come with you when you are with your friends anymore and then when you hes too much to handle for you dump him.
2006-06-22 06:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would most definitely dump him.....and NO to any sort of continuation of being sexual together.
If he is a jerk, I have no room or time for him, no matter how good he can make me feel in bed....
2006-06-22 07:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by tdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Sex is good, but if you find someone who is perfect for you the sex will be better then that guy. Trust me. You will end up hating him, so get out of it now, stop waisting your time, and find someone you are truly meant for!
2006-06-22 07:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine a guy who's that much of an @$$hole that sex would still be any good. If I'm irritated by a guy, I couldn't even kiss him, it would be like throwing up (puking, up chucking, spewing, hurling, regurgitating, backwards sh!tting...you get the idea)
2006-06-22 07:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would for sure dump with out ever looking back. It isn't always about sex. Besides if you are miserable you shouldn't have to second quess to leave him.
2006-06-22 06:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that ! Dump the pathetic jerk or you'll be unhappy emotionally for the rest of your life, unless you can change him....good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You probably won't! He would have to want to change! An idiotic jerk is only worth so much good sex....guess what? If he keeps on being a jerk.....the time will come when you WILL DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-22 07:05:26 · answer #11 · answered by gutenabentdgutnachtmitrosleinbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋