My Girlfriend will take out guys she used to date, buy them stuff, buy their friends things, etc
2006-06-22 06:51:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of her.
2006-06-22 06:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she does have a history with them, Be patient, when you are alone together maybe you want to ask her why she BUYS the guys she used to date stuff? I have a lot of guy friends and I do ignore my family when I am around them or have a chance to go out with them (friends, OF COURSE!!). I don't make it a priority to go outta my way for them; unless they are in grave danger--of course!! Don't make a big deal over it when you are in the company of your girlfriend and her other pals. That will make you look like an ogre and a control freak. It only make her feel as if she can't have ANY friends AT ALL and I know that isn't the case. Its the same case when the roles are reversed, she wouldn't want you to hang with a bunch of girls and then start buying them "gifts". My husband used to buy his "friends" gifts when we didn't have 2 cents to rub together; I told him that it was OK to buy them stuff outta my presence and WITH HIS OWN MONEY. But when it comes to kids and milk, I draw the line. Like i said before, be patient and ask her in private that way you can control the situation. Whereas if you go crazy in public and in front of her friends, they will all convince your girlfriend to break up with you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-22 14:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by pueo882002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she is needy and requires the attention and approval of other males to make her feel better. Even if she has to buy that attention.
You could be in for a rough ride so you may wnat to get off. I would not be down with that behavior AT ALL.
2006-06-22 13:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can do it so can you....Why don't you do it just to see how she will react..If gets really pissed off and acts jelous, then simply tell her its not so funny when the rabbit's got the gun is it... Tell her that is how you feel when she doesthe same thing does that make it any more or less right for her to do it.. Then compromise...
2006-06-22 13:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because she is a "cloopper" a cloopper is someone from the planet Cloopp who dosn't only date one person but many in hopes of repopulating the earth with Cloopp babies. Don't be surprised if she has one, or all of those guys babies...
2006-06-22 13:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I think the best thing for you is to dump her now. Especially, before things gets to crazy. If you can't trust her now then you probably never will.
2006-06-22 14:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and to eat it too. Talk to her, tell her how it makes you feel. Ask her how she would feel if you did the same to her. If she doesn't respect this, move on.
2006-06-22 13:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading your questions upset me, leave that girl already how old is she like 17 or what. why would you want to be with a girl that acts like a hoe. i have a bf and i would never diss him like that.
2006-06-22 13:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont talk to her or do the same to her than shell come to know what it feels like when your treated that way
2006-06-22 13:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her whats up. Tell her that you don't feel comtrable with that.
2006-06-22 13:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u need to kick some *** and tell her to hit the freakin curb... shes being a slut going around blowing every1 else and stuff... idk... thats just what id do
2006-06-22 13:55:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋