I've been dating a guy who lives in a different state. We've been dating for about two months now and he's coming down to visit me this summer. Everytime we talk he tells me how much he really loves me but i think that it's more lust than love. I don't feel that I'm ready to make a commitment and I'm not sure how to break the news to him without breaking his heart. I need help!
2006-06-22 06:46:29 · 4 answers · asked by Socastee_Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better tell him before he comes out to visit. Tell him how you feel, it's gonna hurt no matter what you tell him. But don't string him along by having him come out and visit, you'll have a rotten time with the thoughts in the back of your mind the whole time he is around you.
2006-06-22 07:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Alan J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ahh been there, done that! I just told the guy it isn't going to work, and that he's not the one for me. He didn't understand because at first, we seemed to click. But once we started spending more time together, it un-clicked. Well, for me anyway. He tried to say "I felt more like a man with you than any other woman I've dated," and I wanted to vomit. I think he's the type of guy who can't be alone. We've talked a few times since we split, and he's always saying how he'd prefer to have a girlfriend, and he's so mature and has this wonderful personality that girls LOVE, and blah blah blah. He has this false self-confidence that just irritates the hell outta me. So I'm glad we split. I'd be pulling my hair out if we were still together.
2006-06-22 07:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up girl. You'll hurt his feelings but it is better to be honest with yourself. He'll get over it.
2006-06-22 06:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by head_blown_apart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell him how you feel. If he really loves you he will understand
2006-06-22 06:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋