2006-06-22 06:40:21 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs.Davis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion, Lust is physical, pure and simple. Yes, you can have both at the same time, but those relationships very seldom last because simply, the lust part just fades away, then you only have love and without another foundation for the love, it too will crumble before long.
Love MUST HAVE A FOUNDATION THAT IS NOT BASED ON LUST to remain healthy. Lust comes from the foundation of love, not the other way around. Thats one of the major reasons for such a high divorce rate, (notice I said "one of the reasons")
If you have a good solid foundation for LOVE, then LUST COMES NATUALLY.
2006-06-22 06:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is pure and real. It is for based on all stages. Physical, mental, and spiritual. There are different love for different things.
Lust, on the other hand, is just for fun and enjoyment. Nothing serious. It doesn't give you anything, but passion and sexual excitement.
2006-06-22 06:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by russiangrrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust goes away just as quickly as it comes. Aand it ususally gets u in trouble. Love is there forever even when things dont go right. And u feel love in your heart an soul not just between your legs.
2006-06-22 06:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a physical, mental, and spiritual state. It is a gift from God. Lust is a physical state that is usually the source of most problems in your life.
2006-06-22 06:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is signified by 50 year aniverseries. Lust is signified by offering cab fare. In other words love can wait until you know one another and respect each other as whole persons. Lust can't wait to you naked.
2006-06-22 06:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is in basic terms actual - you opt to have intercourse with this individual, grope this individual. All physique stuff. Love is emotional - sure, there are factors of lust in love yet for the main section it truly is desirous to be with that individual, communicate with that individual, cuddle, and to stay with them constantly. tl;dr Lust leaves once you income some pounds, love continues to be and asks in case you like cake.
2016-10-31 07:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is what you feel; love is what you do!
2006-06-22 06:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is purely sexual. Love can be there even if the sex is not. It can last through anything.
2006-06-22 06:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by TR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will be true but lust is always fake
2006-06-22 06:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋