People tell me that their in love with their spouses. I want to know if it really love or lust?
2006-06-22 06:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by chocolateheaven84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
love is an unexplainable emotion that comes from the heart it will probably take u awhile to recognize the emotion,lust is being horny-wet hard ,lust full and aroused
2006-06-22 13:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by hotcherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an intense, undescribable feeling that can be the best feeling in the world yet at the same time the worst.
2006-06-22 13:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends but you now what women are in such a hurry to find Love that they cannot make out that whether the person really loves her or not if women are a bit cautious and are not turned down by mere flattery then they will surely make out whether the person really loves her or not.
2006-06-22 13:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by cute_manasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be either,but the majority of the time its really love.Love iz somethin that doesn't come very easy,love iz somethin that u feel unconditionally,it won't quit.
2006-06-22 13:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by viewbriah2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's lust:A thick sistah with big thighs/hips(-;
2006-06-22 13:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luv is dead...
2006-06-22 13:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋