Doing something wrong or just mad?

Question

This is kind of stupid. But my bf and I got into a bad arguement last night and he left the house and went to stay at his sisters. Now he won't call me today and he won't answer the phone when I called. The last thing said was that we weren't together, but then he called me one last time after that last night to say I love you. Should I assume that since he isn't talking to me, that he is just pissed and trying to take his time or assume that he could possibly be doing something wrong thinking we aren't together anymore. Just want opinions of what other people do when they get mad and don't call there bf/gf, are they doing stuff wrong, or just taking the time to think?

Answer 1

hey..i'm sorry to hear about the fight...I think you should talk to him.. last week same thing happened to me.. ...things were kinda off on friday and he did not call all day on sat or answer my calls... but to see he was sick.. so.. maybe your guy thinks it's over..cos you did not call him back.. did you tell that you love him.. when he called ...hope you did.. if not maybe he thought it's over.. Call him.. even better go talk to him....

Answer 2

It is very common for two people to have an argument and neveer talk to each other for some time. But the worst thing that can happen to the relationship is extending the anger for a long time. Him calling you to say he loves u is a sign of repentance and care.So throw every thing behind and make up with ur man.

Answer 3

Me and my boyfriend go through crap like this all the time. We are always together though, no matter what the other says. We may yell and say we hate each other , we dont belong together, we aren't together, blah blah blah, but its never a real breakup. I, personally, were I in this situation, would assume we were still together, and that hhopefully he is doing something to calm himself.

But with guys, you never know.

Answer 4

I would give him his space. He left to get away. Let him call you. Guys hate being chased and they don't like feeling crowded. Give him the space and don't ever sit by the phone and wait for him to call. Go out with your friends and have fun without him. Best of luck!

Answer 5

i got a girlfriend who is always lying and sneaking and i dont trust her but i still have feelings for her but i want to let her go.Im still real used to her loving me so sometimes im insecure and i want to know she still wants me even though im trying to let her go.I dont call her but when she doesnt call me i find myself wanting to call her.It seems so much easier for girls to let guys go cuz they can hook up so easy.unless a guy already has another girlfriend he cant bring himself to break it off with a girl completely.He is probably just going through the same thing in his own way.If you still love him then just plain ask him.dont be childish with these on and off games.Relationships are all about tolerating other peoples shortcomings without giving up on them.How hard is it to love someone depends on how loving and forgiving and how much understanding you have.Thats the test.Everyone has uglies but they can see other peoples alot easier than their own.Its a good thing to pay closest attention to your own uglies more than others because when they do it makes us embarrassed and puts us in a defenseve posture.Thats when the arguments begin

Answer 6

I think he is probably being smart and letting things settle down some. Personally, whatever he is doing, you deserve for saying "we weren't/aren't together."

Answer 7

talk to him. sort things out. the main thing that keeps a relationship going is communication and trust.

Answer 8

he is taking time to think

Answer 9

mad