I have this pregnant mom?

Question

My mom is maybe just a few weeks pregnant and she already pretty much hates me how do i make her not mad at me anymore.
Life in my house is hell at the moment no matter what i do she's mad at me, my grandma says it's just because "your mom is pregnant and when she's pregnant she's mean". Should i stay out of her way? What can i do to lessen the tension between us?

Answer 1

Pregnant women do go through hormonal changes that may make them more moody. BUT, you are entitled to your feelings, and if they are hurt, then something needs to happen. Try talking to her in a calm way about how you feel, just to let her know that her meanness is not okay with you. Maybe it will help her lighten up, and maybe talking to her will help you understand what she's going through.

Answer 2

As much as people want to think a pregnant woman should be glowing and happy all the time, well, it doesn't usually happen that way for all women. Some women have very bad mood swings because of the extra hormones in their body and don't realize how mean they are being. I'm speaking here from experience. I'm at 37 weeks with my first child right now and thank goodness I'm almost over with this! Just a couple more weeks to go, if that. I was pretty moody and mean to my husband, but didn't realize it until he said something to me.

Have you tried to talk to your Mom? I'm not sure how old you are, but maybe you could ask her if you could have a little talk because you are conserned and you want to help her through this. Tell her how much you love and care about her and how you want this to be a neat experience for both of you. Make her a card and tell her all your thoughts and feelings. No matter what you do, try not to get defensive with her. It's hard to understand why pregnant women are the way they are sometimes, but try to be extra helpful and understanding. In the long run your mom will appreciate it. ;)

Answer 3

In my opinion, I would advice you to stay out of her way. I say that because I've been through that except my mom wasn't pregnant. Unless you need her, just stay out of her way. When she gets closer to you, then maybe you should ask her, mom you know, you've been really harsh with me the pass couple weeks or so, why are you treating me so? I believe parents shouldn't treat their children mean regardless of their situation, they should always show love and effection to their kids. Any how, good luck hun...I'm sure she'll come to her senses

Answer 4

I was there when I was 13 years old. All you can do is be extra kind and helpful to her. She is this way because of her being pregnant. If you have other sisters and brother in the family help with them however you can.
Do what you know your suppose to without being told two or more times. This helps her better through the day.
I hope that is helpful to you.

Answer 5

well i heard dat when women r pregnant they r very grumpy & angry most of the time, so I would say u try to stay out of the house most of the time, hang out wid ur friends, go on dates, watch movies outside & come around 10 at home, that will save u, after she gets the kid she'll be back to normal, trust me she loves u the same way as before, don't misunderstand her

Answer 6

Yes, it would be a good idea to stay out of her way. Maybe you could also help her with the house work. Why not ask your dad for advice?

Answer 7

Maybe your mom should talk to her doctor about this. moodiness is normal but she should not be nasty to you. Most pregnant women I have known tend to cry easier but did not become mean! Sounds like something else might be wrong with mom.

Answer 8

offer her a pedicure or offer to make a nice dinner for her...rub her feet , give her a manicure. all moms would love to be pampered once in a while

Answer 9

stay in ther you will make it +you will get a littel sis or bro to teach bad thing to

Answer 10

just ignore her