2006-06-22 05:58:17 · 15 answers · asked by cuckoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it certainly is the pits. And we have all been there before. The first time for me I thought I could never live without that person and that there was no one else for me. It hurt so bad because they seemed to be able to move on just fine without me and I was a wreck. I tought I would hurt forever. But one day it just stopped. The hurt stopped anyway. That was a long time ago and I do still care for that person. It's not an "in love" with care but you will always care for your past loves. You cannot love someone so much and then just turn it off one day. You will always care and they will always have a piece of your heart. And it seems that there is always that one person in your life that you will never completly get over. You will move on with your life and love again and be loved back. And the thing is that it's okay. And ya know what else they might always care about you too. And one day you wont see all the bad just the good times you had with that person. The thing that helped me the most was to admit that I was meant to be with that person. Mabe for only a moment in time but for a moment it was right. And I know now that it was never meant to last, but man it sure was right at one time. People come and go from our lives like a swift summer breeze, and as soon as it comes it is gone. But it sure did smell sweet while it lasted didn't it. And what is so great now is that you get a whole new chance. You get to meet someone who will love you completly and be happy. Keep you head up and remember what a great person you are. And how lucky someone will be someday to be loved by you!
2006-06-22 06:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is a good question that can only be answered by you.
I have had my heart broken many times and finally decided that I fell for the wrong type of person. My self esteem was low. The better you feel about yourself. the better partner you will pick. The book, "He's just not that into you" is a great one to read. It will open your eyes to some self destructive behavior.
2006-06-22 13:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. you honestly sound just like me like 3 months ago. I've been there and done that. We love them because we loved the feeling of being in love. Yes, they may have broken our heart and stomped on it right in front of your face, but everyone wants love. I dated a guy and he totally broke my heart and I loved him everyday after that and now we're back together and we've worked things out. You never forget the guy/girl you truly loved. You can date as many girls/guys as you want, but when you fall in love you never forget that person no matter what happened. If you still love them now, you always will.
2006-06-22 13:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by dipitlowchikita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't want to admit defeat and that we were wrong. We made a mistake by loving this person who, because they broke our heart, was obviously wrong for us. So instead of admitting that we made a mistake, we compensate by continuing to "love" this person. And everyone does it.
The most lifesaving pill anyone could ever come up with would be the one that would cure heartbreak.
2006-06-22 13:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by msgene61@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because though they broke our heart we can still love them with all the little pieces..sucks doesn't it? But the heart heals gradually over time but it's a long bloody process xXx
2006-06-22 13:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by nutmeg666forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still asking that question myself from time to time. Maybe the reason why people still love their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends is the fear of being alone. In my opinion it is going to hard to get back into the "game" because the "team" failed to win the "championship game", but remember time does heal all wounds.
2006-06-22 13:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't turn love on and off like a switch - it would be nice, but that's not the way it works. Something I learned years ago - the opposite of love isn't hate - it's indifference.
2006-06-22 13:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by woodlands127 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because regardless of the bad moments, we had a lot more of the good, then we hold on to those until we finally get over it or fall in love again.....It's sad I know...sometimes you have to wonder what's the point of falling in love right!!
2006-06-22 13:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by brina27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its probably not them you love "He/or she was a jerk." Its the memory's, companionship, and idea of them that we love. When relationships end, we have a nasty habit of romanticizing how good it accually was in our heads. Dont worry! You will love again.
2006-06-22 13:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by tao_of_archangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is something even i wish 2 know. I hope u get a kool answer coz it will help me 2.....
check u later then,.
2006-06-22 13:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋