he thinks I'm the only girl he could ever like
2006-06-22 05:53:59 · 24 answers · asked by miss ingie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is up to you . . . but in my opinion . . . you and him are both too young to be in a relationship. You are the only girl he ever knew . . . and when he goes to college . . . he will see what the possibility could be for his future.
This relationship . . . if it gets committed . . . will eventually lead to break-up and heartache because one will eventually cheat . . . I am sorry to be blunt . . . but I guarantee it will happen . . . it will be him that cheats or you . . . because you both will be separated from each other . . . .
2006-06-22 05:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Well, it depends. In some countries, assuming that you're younger than the college boy you're thinking of dating, it's acceptable to date older people. However, in some countries it's illegal for someone to date a person under the legal age of consent. However, just because the laws may say it's "OK" because you're above the legal age of consent, it doesn't mean that your parents don't have a say in it. Talk to your parents about it and if they over-react, then it's normal because they're looking out for you...that's what good parents do. But keep the communication open...the worst thing you can do is do something behind their backs.
2006-06-22 13:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by themeerkat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends.. If you are in college along with him than yes, because even though a relationship can be stressful it is always a good thing to have someone that you can spend time with when school is hected and he will know exactly how you feel. If he is way older than you than I would say no, because if you are still in high school you will be wondering if he is messing around with someone else and tons of other mess. So all-in-all it all up to you, but in my opinion I would not.
2006-06-22 12:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by tiffsag02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious you two are. It might be hard with him being away at college and doing different things but if you two are committed to making it work nothing can stop you. Sometimes it's the tima apart to help you grow, but sometimes you can grow apart and go in teo different directions. Follow your heart!
2006-06-22 12:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and how far away the college is. If they're both reasonable, go for it, but be prepared for a possible break up.
2006-06-22 12:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by relientkfreak_pippagethetook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one consider the fact that are you over 18 secondly do you like him. Last most important is thta does he like you or does he think that you are the only person that he can go out with and he's just sticking to you because he is afraid that he can't find someone else.
2006-06-22 12:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's VERY hard to make it in a relationship when one person is in college...I've been there. I was the one going to college and saying I would never be interested in anyone else....but it was veeeery hard to stick to and a lot of fights occured. However..I just graduated and we did make it through, but it takes a lot of hard work, and you need to be able to trust him...just be careful.
2006-06-22 12:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by e_r_c_15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm Garry,
It's sinful to make love before you marry..
what goes up must come down so in that fact there will come the day that you die and face god with the good you've done in your live and the sin you've done in your life..
Be careful.. life isn't just about time and love making..
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry
2006-06-22 12:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the age gap and whether its a long distance relationship when he goes to college
2006-06-22 13:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by alpha107librae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya. until he starts thinking there ARE other girls he could like. and believe me, after a month of college he'll figure that out
2006-06-22 12:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by myscrapemails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋