I'm a very shy person in front of girls in public, but when i'm online talking to that same person i'm not shy at all, what's wrong with me? And what can I do to help with that problem?
2006-06-22 05:45:55 · 49 answers · asked by Corey L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always have something to say when you are around them. It doesnt have to be the most refined statements that you have to make, but anything simple will start a conversation. If not sure, ask every day questions and you will get an answer. That may lead you to asking another question and you get another answer. Probably then you too will be asked and you answer back. By and by, you will realise that you are warm with this person or persons and the shyness will become history. :-)
2006-06-22 05:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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How could I become less shy around girls???
I'm a very shy person in front of girls in public, but when i'm online talking to that same person i'm not shy at all, what's wrong with me? And what can I do to help with that problem?
2015-08-20 21:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Merle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my boyfriend on line and i was completely shy and scared to meet him even though he was one of my best friends cousins. i knew he wasnt creepy or anything but i was so shy. i got him to talk to me on the phone a lot before we met at all and when i met him i just told myself "this is probably the perfect guy and if you screw this up by being shy and completely different then that person he thinks you are, you might as well just go live alone in the woods." so as soon as i saw him i gave him a huge hug and threw everything out the window and decided that i would embarrass myself rather than be shy. we have been together for a year and a half and will be getting married so i guess it worked.
2006-06-22 05:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by kim n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont like being face to face with them its easier to talk to them online because you dont see there reaction you are scared of what they think just be laid back dont say much or what you can do is talk a little then say you have to go then work your way up from there you dont have to be shy but more confident tell yourself you are the man and she is just some girl theres no way she could ever turn me down.....you have to belive that you are the sh*t
2006-06-22 05:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI I'm Garry,
Look you need to love yourself more my yahoo friend,
When you do you will find that self confidence will come along..
Being shy = not enough self confidence..
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry
P.S feel free to message me regarding this subject or any other..
I'm always happy to help especially that I can seriously relate to what you are feeling here..
2006-06-22 05:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try making friends with girls. I used to be really shy around guys, but then I ended up going to a school with mostly guys, so I had to make friends with guys, and it made me not be shy around them anymore.
2006-06-22 05:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is normal and common.
the best thing you can do is practice. go up to a girl on occassion and say hi. What's the worst she can do? Laugh? Make fun of you? Well - if she does that she's certainly not worth talking to anyway!!!!
The more you approach girls, the more comfortable you will become. We girls happen to like it when guys come up and talk to us. We don't bite and any girl worth talking to will make you feel comfortable as you talk to her more.
2006-06-22 05:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are shy w/ girls only when you see them, or hear them talk. there's no alternatives to remedize that. like having stage fright, you have to be bold when you confront a girl. Girls just want to have good time, so say sumthing funny to amuse them. or if you don't have any sense of humor, be a person that cares and listen to whatever they want to say. that way, if you don't open your mouth, nobody would know you're shy, and when time goes by when you have frequent contacts w/ them, you might drop that behavior.
2006-06-22 05:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when your online your not shy becuase you have a screen to block you, you feel secure becuase it is less of a rejection. But in public, they can see who you are, what you look like, how you act ect. ect. ect. So, when your in public act like you have nothing to fear, even go as far as pretend that comp shield is in front of you and BE YOUR SELF! Girl can tell when a guy is fake and best thing to do..dont talk to girls at a bar and very very public place just meet them at a more private public, like a coffie house or libray or something.
2006-06-22 05:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by :::Rae::: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you express yourself better behind a computer, which that could be a problem with real life. If you were to become more confident in yourself then you might not have the shyness. I believe all human beings have a little shyness in them. Don't worry about yourself, your normal. Live your life in a positive and confident manner and maybe just maybe the shyness will go away.
2006-06-22 05:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋