2006-06-22 05:40:41 · 28 answers · asked by blackcatluck09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're really concerned about it, suggest to him that you spend a few weeks without it... to build the excitement. Tell him while you're not having sex, you can get into other things in your relationship... whatever suits you guys. You could just hang out and play games (cards, board games, etc) and talk/snuggle. You could go to amusement parks or go hiking. You could go to museums, go to church... just whatever it is that fits you guys. If you all can make it through that comfortably, and you actually CAN fill your time without sex... then I think you might be alright. =)
2006-06-22 05:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - if you have not had sex with this person and their main conversation is always sexual, then I would tend to believe sex is the main focus of this "relationship". Second - if you have already had sex and you find yourself always doing this, never going out, or sharing with friends, I would tend to think that you are being used for sex. Third - stop immediately. This person is not for you. Sex only confuses relationship issues- especially when you are not ready for all the drama that surrounds this very intimate commitment. Good luck
2006-06-22 05:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard question to answer but if you want to know then here it is. It depends on how you carry your self. If you carry yourself in a way that makes a guy look at you like then thats how they will treat you. Make him wait a while. If you have sex too early on in the relationship then he just wants sex, make him wait a while and love and sex will follow.
2006-06-22 05:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question then he is probably just dating you for the sex....or you are staying with him for the sex.
2006-06-22 05:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they only call you to have sex. Talk about nothing but sex when they are with you. The only thing you do together is have SEX!
2006-06-22 05:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you do any "couples" things? Going out for walks, going to movies, doing activities you both enjoy. If not, it's probably just sex. If you have to ask this question, it's a good bet you're being used. Sorry...
2006-06-22 05:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll I think only way you would know if your boyfriend only with you for sex is if he pressure into it all the time {tryin to do it/keep asking you}, but if ya'll in a long relationship trust me he not their just for sex he must really care for you!
2006-06-22 05:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....from my experience..i can say that i know they are if:
-they see you only when it is time for them, usually late at night
-when they talk to you, do they ask personal things about your life and what your doing or is it just plans and about them
-when you see them, is it for a short time period and you have sex and he leaves or do you go out on dates and you cuddle and do other things
---these are all good things to watch out for, if you notice alot of those things then...when you have time with each other dont do it, see what happens, Does he make up excuses to leave or is he like that is ok sweetie we can just go do something else.
2006-06-22 05:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by :::Rae::: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex.
2006-06-22 05:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he spends no money on you and wants to have sex two hours into a date - trust me , i do all the time
2006-06-22 05:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋