i been see this 31 years old african guy for a while now but right now he is been dissed me and kept distance with me and sometime he told me he will call me bak but he didnt and he still got in contact with his ex what should i do now?
2006-06-22 04:11:59 · 38 answers · asked by coolgrl2211232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't sound like a guy to have in your life right now. Let him go. Find someone more honest and reliable. You deserve that much hun.
2006-06-22 04:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is in contact with his ex don't even bother with him he playing you, but if he is keeping his distance, there is more there then the eye can see. Dump him. But when it comes to age difference doesn't matter, my 22 year old daughter is engaged to a 34 year old man, he is very nice and I approve of the relationship. Big plus he has no ex's in his current past, they are good for each other and they bring out the best in each other.
2006-06-22 04:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cornflakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is just playing around with your heart. He is breaking promises to you and contacting his ex. It also sounds like he is disrespecting you. So I just want to say, do you want to be with a guy who doesn't respect you, and is causing you more trouble? What I would do is plan leaving the relationship unless there is a major important "matter of the heart" reason why you shouldn't. I also think you should just talk to him FACE to FACE on why he is still in contact with his ex and why he is not acting like he used to. Get some answers from him, and then evaluate the situation and decide whether you should leave him or not.
2006-06-22 04:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by natelements 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As is usually the case this African guy is married with children and she has probably popped back into the scene and he has to give her just rights. In their relationships that are separate, sometimes because of finances, job security, or his roaming eye they will separate with her keeping the kids and he living long distance from them but still a part of their lives. Divorce is not something they do. Get used to it - third wheel. Also, please remember the rule about a condom, especially with an African man.
2016-05-20 11:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are legally considered an adult, so you may date whomever you choose, but you need to go into this with your eyes wide open.
The fact that the guy is 31 years old or is from Africa is not important (unless he has in mind to use you for US citizenship purposes). The real question is, should you be dating this particular guy. From what you have said, | suspect he finds you cute and fun to be with when he feels like it, but he has other places to be when he doesn't feel like it. Do you want to live like that?
2006-06-22 04:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well getting with the "african guy" was the first mistake...with all the people in the world why would you do that? do you really think he likes or loves you?he just wants in your pants and im sure you have already dont that!your best bet is to find yourself a man that is God fearing and God loving and you will never have to worry about this ever happening again!!! and that is 100% GUARATEED!!!!!!!!!
do you want to end up like some of these other idiotic white girls saying "he my baby daddy and he gunna take care of me when he get out da pin" "silky gunna buy baby tyrone sum dippaaaas"?
2006-06-22 04:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awh. Hon, if he is keeping his distance then forget it.
I know what. I have an African guy friend and he is a pretty awesome dude. Very funny and nice. Also, loves to run and outgoing. Plus, he is 21 years old going to school for message therapy. How hot is that?
Get back to me if you want.
2006-06-22 04:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by DORKALICIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with a 21 dating a 31 african man.
there is a problem when the man is treating you like a piece of gum on the bottom of his shoe.
move on.
2006-06-22 04:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by di05712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that so not right to go out with a 31 year old/
2006-06-22 04:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the age has nothing to do with it, but if hasn't been calling and getting in touch with his ex, you may want to just move on. Guys of all ages could do something like this. I would just move on to someone who was focused on you and only you!! :)
2006-06-22 04:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by MentalCaseMaggot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋