why is it that i cant seem to get a date, let alone a girlfriend? im 17, fairly good looking, smart, articulate, occasionally funny, and yet i cant for the life of me get a girl to notice me. i would also like to take this oppertunity, since i have a captive audience, to say that i live in florida, and any ladies between the ages of 16 and 18 interested in possibly meeting up should email me. thank you for your time.
2006-06-22 03:53:05 · 18 answers · asked by double0agent2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had this problem. Women like masculine guys, that's why people say nice guys finish last. Not true it's just that guys that are jerks tend to have more masculine traits. Be confident in who you are and hold your head up. Being nice to girls is great, but don't let them mistake you niceness for weakness or you'll find yourself in the "friend zone". I was the same way for years, and now I've got a fantastic girlfriend. Remember you are a man act like one!
2006-06-22 04:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
story from the little box:-
It's meaningful....
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)
Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..
"Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!
so, stop complaint!..action is more important than just talk!
2006-06-22 11:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there in the state of Florida and do something nice for somebody. A nice girl is sure to notice.
2006-06-22 10:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Seagoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something sounds definitely wrong with those women in florida. don't be so down about it-i have the same issue and i'm a 27 pretty girl. sometimes the world is just all wrong? maybe god just wants you to wait a little longer because he'll be bringing someone extra special to you.
2006-06-22 10:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seventeen is young. I'm guessing you're a little shy around the girls. So are some of them. Get up the courage to ask one out. Good luck.
2006-06-22 10:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am 17 single join the club
2006-06-22 10:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your on the right path, and did you ever think that your not in the right place for women to notice you and get to know you
2006-06-22 10:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you hang out on the internet. Go to the mall or the beach or something! Geez!
2006-06-22 10:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus wait for the rite girl to come along shell be perect
2006-06-22 10:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by got questions?. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try so hard, just let the moment come to you. if you dont wanna wait than try asking a girl out.
2006-06-22 14:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Socastee_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋