I haven't been on a date for about a year, and haven't really made out with guy for about....well it's been a while, and this summer it looks like I have opportunities, but my confidence is a little shaken, any advice?
2006-06-22 03:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by RosiePosy89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, I'm not looking for a serious relationship cause I spend my summers in Los Angeles
CA, and the rest of the year in London, England, so should I make that clear to guys I meet, or no?
2006-06-22 03:54:08 · update #1
Just because you haven't made out with a guy in a while or been on a date for a while doesn't mean you should have to feel bad about it hun! Don't worry, Im sure guys would love to go out with you, just don't make out on the first date! :) Just be yourself and have fun. If the guy doesn't like you, don't worry about it because there are so many others out there who would love to be with you. Good Luck!!
2006-06-22 03:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be on a dead broke horse that won't cause you to tense up. And as everyone else has stated, you need to explain to your instructor about the fall and lack of confidence. There are many ways of building it back up but that only comes with time in the saddle. Your instructor wasn't attempting to rub salt in the wound, chances are you're just overly sensitive because of frayed nerves. When she said your knees were terrible this was the straw that broke the camels back. Taking the lunging lessons will be very beneficial to you. You can work on yourself while having to not worry about being in control of the horse. This gives you a chance to relax while on the horse and settling yourself into a proper seat. If you're going to be tense, you may lean forward, you'll end up with a death grip on the horse without realizing it and it may lead to disaster. What you need to do is see this as a minor set back and keep your eyes on the goal: getting back in the saddle. There is nothing wrong with going back to basics at. all. It doesn't make you a terrible rider, it is merely a set back. Walk into the next lesson with your chin up, shoulders back, and force yourself to be confident and open minded. You are under instruction for a reason. There will be little and large successes. There will also be fall backs along the way. Take it all in stride and listen what your instructor has to say. Before you know it, you'll be confident again.
2016-03-27 00:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really must believe that you are capable of having a good healthy relationship and you have to be able to really want one i know that it seems hard to get back on the horse so to speak but guys like confident girls. Go over in you mind every day several times a day that you are beautiful and fully capable of giving and receiving love
2006-06-22 03:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through dry spells. Don't live your life in fear, instead take advantage of what it has to offer you. The best way to get back your confidence in to explore these opportunities you have. Remember, we all fall off the horse once in awhile and the best thing you can do when that happens is to get right back up and ride some more.
2006-06-22 03:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out there! There are alot of places to meet guys.
1. The beach
2. The mall
3. Sporting events
4. Dances
5. The grocery store
and so many more. It is easy to meet guys.
2006-06-22 03:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by Erika A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. It is all like riding a bike. It will come back to you. Show that confidence because most guys like a girl that is confident in herself and her body.
2006-06-22 03:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your hair trimmed. Nails done. Polish your teeth. Sweet smelling breath. Nice perfume. New outfit and shoes. Nothings better than new underwear! You'll feel like you own the world.
2006-06-22 03:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by rj c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't go out looking but just like wear things that a guy would notice you in. Because if you get his attention just let him come to you. were things that show off your assets. Believe me i am a guy so we will notice you. but don't worry you know your oppurtunity when it appers.
2006-06-22 03:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be shaken and stirred so.... go out with him, make out with him, do it with him and don't waste your summers again. Lifetime is a terrible thing to waste, just do it.... NOW!
2006-06-22 03:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a good kisser, always a good kisser. You don't forget, but if you need practice, i'm in Orlando. Just kidding. Don't worry, you'll do fine.
2006-06-22 03:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by swaman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋