some guys i know would not want to see a girl again if she didnt come across with the goods on the first night as they think she is 'wasting their time'!!!!!
Do many guys feel like that????
2006-06-22 03:47:10 · 29 answers · asked by IrishLassie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, only if she has been doing every other guy the favor and she suddenly stopped on you, but generally I do not expect the girl to sleep with me unless we are like totally hot for each other, if it is just a normal date, and the girl would want to sleep with me then you could say she is a $lut, I might not say no but that would be the last date. I respect a girl who values her self..
2006-06-22 03:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not!
If a guy is only going out with you on a date so he can get in your pants then he is clearly an **** hole and you should tell him as much.
Sometimes you go out on a date and it just happens though. There is that animal magnetism that you just cant ignore and you end up in bed together. That's fine, but if a man is only after you for sex and if you refuse to "provide" him with what he wants then he was clearly no good in the first place and things would not last.
I hate men like that! They give the rest of us a bad name!
2006-06-22 04:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by mrhaff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be annoyed if a girl didn't want to have sex on the first date.
If she was giving me the come on and flirting, I would be a little bit pissed off by the end of the night if nothing happened... but only if she was giving me signs
2006-06-22 04:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by 70sBabyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, friendship or dating is not all about sex, yes we have sex to make relationship grow stronger ( not to have sex is the best) but any guy that want sex on the first day, watch him he only wants what is under and not the top I mean your heart. Sex is good but knowing each other very well before sex is the best
2006-06-22 04:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woudl generally personally take it as a sign that the girl has some self dignity. I would never expect that, just because it should be when both of the people are ready, and that takes a little bit, because it is not something that should be given away easily. Brando
2006-06-22 03:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! And if you date this kind of guy and give in you will find he either will not be back or back for a lot more. If he feels this way you are not in the picture for him. All he wants to see is you on your back.
And you are the one that would be wasting your time on him.
2006-06-22 03:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the messages that the girl was sending out, if all of them pointed to she was up for it im sure many guys wouldnt be happy if they didnt. if the girl makes it clear from the beginning then there is no argument bout it. personally i reckon a girl who doesnt first night would definetly gain my respect.
2006-06-29 02:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by hmmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the guys that are out for themselves expect that. It's a good filter. The ones that come back to get to know you better are the ones you will enjoy spending time with.
2006-06-22 03:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that,only the players.most men i would say if they liked the girl they will respect them and the goods will come when you are both ready.any guy wanting the goods same night say goodbye.
2006-06-22 03:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by irlamboyo45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that won't see a girl again if she doesn't have sex with him isn't worth seeing again anyways!!! Girls do deserve respect!
2006-06-22 03:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋