In my question about my sister's baby being stillborn and that she is depressed. I had also put in that i suffered the loss of a child too by a drunk driver.
An answerer said that "it" loved drunk drivers.
My daughter was 3 months old when we were driving to a doctor's appointment and this no good piece of scum hit us head on and we all were hurt (myself,husband,son) But my darling daughter was the one that did not make it out of the crash alive.
To that person that made fun have you seen a bleeding, lifeless child? A child of your own? I will not go into details in how my lil angel looked but the casket could not be opened.
How can anyone i mean a human being make fun of that? Do you know that when you do make fun and wish things on people what comes around goes around?
2006-06-22 01:40:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
There are some sick people out there. I am sorry for your loss. That is one of my biggest nightmares but at least your little angel is in heaven.
I hope you reported that sicko.
2006-06-22 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Juicy 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just sick and twisted.. and most of all ignorant..
They have obviously not been in any kind of position to experience such a dreadful thing. What right do they have to pass judgement or have any kind of honest objective opinion of what it must be like to suffer such a loss..
The reality is that life is just not fair sometimes, but that does not give anybody the right to rub salt in your mental wounds. Children can never be replaced once they have passed..
Although there may be few memories because of being such a young age.. cherish the happiness that came into the world on the day she was born..
I know it must be extremely difficult to even begin to make sense of it all... but I wish you the best of luck in coping with such a bad experience.
It takes huge amounts of courage to stand up to ignorance, misunderstanding, and the stupid irrational people in this world that don't know enough to call a cab or give up the keys. A little common sense would have gone a long, long way. Very tragic indeed.. maybe this will inspire someone in the world of Yahoo to make better decisions in the future. I hope so.
I am sorry for your loss..
try to keep your chin up :)
2006-06-22 01:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by lost_but_not_hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not see that answer on the question that you are referring to so it must have been taken off. I saw earlier that you were having a problem with an offensive answer to another of your questions. Is this the same person?
Yes, these people can be hurtful but we do not know who anyone really is here and we can't take these kinds of things personnallly. Most of these offensive comments are just kids looking for a laugh. Report it and move on. When you post a question like this you are just feeding them the kind of negative attention that they are looking for.
Tragic death is never funny and it was sick to say that it was. I hope you and your family is getting the help that you need to recover from that tragedy. I also read your question about your sister - just be there for her. That's all you can do right now.
2006-06-22 02:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have 4 kids and it scares the hell out of me every time we get in the car. I can't even fathom what you must be going through and I don't want too.
I know this doesn't come close to what happened to you and my child was fine, but when I was pregnant with my last baby, I had no clue that I was pregnant. Yeah, I know that sounds impossible since I had been pregnant 3 times before, but I didn't. Well, I had to go to a maternal/fetal specialist and have an amniocentesis done. What a wait! Everything was fine and so is he, but what I went through thinking that I could lose this person that I haven't even met yet. Then there is people out there that have gone through things like you and it makes mine seem trivial.
Now, to those IDIOTS out there that think something so horrible is funny, well wait until something horrific happens to them or their loved ones. LETS SEE WHO WILL BE LAUGHING THEN!!
2006-06-22 02:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so sad i have no idea why someone would think that was funny i am a mother of 4 and i cry when i seen any child being mistreated being abused if a person can make fun of the lose of a child they are a no good ********** i wont say
im sorry for you lose it has to be something you will never get over i hope you and your family the best and i hope you all recovered well from the accident and i hope that guy who hit you is in jail for the rest of his life
2006-06-22 03:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have the natural ability to be heartless bas#$!ds.
I am sorry for the loss of your precious child. I almost lost my infant son last Thursday, on the night he was born and I know how I still feel about that, I can only imagine the way your heart aches. May it help you to know that your beautiful daughter is wrapped in angel wings, and may you find comfort with your family and friends and in God.
Blessings.
2006-06-22 04:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the internet. There is no aptitude test to get on. This is Yahoo Answers, there are no qualifications necessary and no sensitivity checklist. If you are going to put your life out there, your questions then you are asking for people to pass judgement, make opinions and respond. I am not diminishing your loss, it is a terrible, heart-wrenching thing but it's not for this place. You are going to get idiots, you are going to get judgements and negative feedback, you know that, you're not new so be prepared and if you don't like it then don't put your most intimate life details on the internet for everyone to see, even the a**holes.
This is in NO WAY to support the mindless, senseless, mean things that people say, including the response to your question.
2006-06-22 02:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your lost, my sisiter was killed by a drunk driver, who hit twice. the asshole was going so fast that when she hit her the first time it propelled her into the air, now at teh same rate my sister was traveling in the air, the car was moving fast enough to catch her a 2nd time, the details are really horrible, but she was four. we were crossing the street. This is not a laughing matter. even speaking of it now it still hurts. Hope you & you family are able to get through this and my heart goes out to you. Peace & Blessings.
2006-06-22 01:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats about as nasty as you want to get i lost a child that was 1yr. and 2weeks old. due to a very bad accident and i really hope that you have found stregnth and have good people to help you, there is never gonna be anything in this world that ever affect you the way loosing a child will and as far as for ignorit ***'s like that they really arent worth the time of day ......my son would have been 7 on june 2nd.
2006-06-22 08:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by glenda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I can not even begin to imagine what it would be like to lose my baby. I hope that you can ignore such nasty comments and know that they are said out of ignorance and evil and seeking attention. Those kinds of people need professional help.
I hope you can somehow get past the comments that were made.
2006-06-22 09:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Miss D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just born evil,and I think the thing that said that to you,is one of them. I'm really sorry for your loss, and I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through.
2006-06-22 08:13:12 · answer #11 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋