i need advice on long term relationships
2006-06-22 01:05:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They require a lot of work and excellent communication. The biggest issue with long term relationships is this: there are two people involved - think about how complicated YOU can be all on your own...the other person goes through the same thing. The nice thing about this is how the other person can help you out in tough times because they've come to know you (sometimes better than you know yourself).
2006-06-22 01:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle's boyfriend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way these relationship will survive is if there is mutual respect, love and most important, TRUST. There can't be any jealousy. Remember, you still look at the opposite sex, you still find others attractive, so why should your mate be any different. Looking and acting are two totally different things. People in relationships also need time alone or time with other friends. This is very important. Respect is a biggie also. If your mate enjoys underwater basket weaving but the thought of it repulses you too bad. If the relationship means alot to you and you love that person you must take the good with the bad. Don't try to change eachother. This is a road to disaster. The only person that can change someone is the person themselves. If things are getting a bit tough try remembering why you fell in love in the first place. There is much more to it than could be typed here. Remember the basics and put some effort into the relationship. Good Luck
2006-06-22 08:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is no advice anyone could give on relationships. They either work or they don't. If it is meant to be nothing will be an effort and everything will fall into a smooth and natural groove. If your heart is happy and comfortable in the relationship it's all good. If it feels like a sour ball and you are not happy....it's not!
2006-06-22 08:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume that when you ask this, u already have a girl...
for long term relation, keep these things in mind...
1. Be yourself.
2. Understand her.
3. be with her.
4. give her space
5. always be a surprise for her... but a pleasant surprise..
6. be original
7. do special things for her, ones which she can't forget easily.
8. don't try to get on top of her for every thing...
9. let her explore you... but always give some tip about you each day... don't worry , once you start you will get good points to give her as tip.... like your favorite food...
10. understand the very nature of the girl...
11. if she likes to do kiddish things, appreciate it and say that its cute...
12. Most important.. never hurt her ego...
follow the above guidelines... i cant think of more as of now....
good luck
2006-06-22 08:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to know about long term relationships?
2006-06-22 08:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by str8upladee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. keep your promises if you cant explain why you cant.
2. kiss her on the forehead and hold her from behind a real guy that loves you wont only go for your lips.
3. when she cries and mad at you hold onto her and dont let her walk away even if you are mad (unless she says let go).
4. Listen to her ideas and suggestions even if there dumb.
5. try to do somethings that she likes even if its not your kinda thing it means something to her and she will do the same in return.
6.Remeber things that she always wanted to do but never had the chance as suprises.
7.always try to talk to her when your upset dont keep it in makes us fill like were not important when you cant talk to us.
8. bring flowers for no reason at all to her.
9. Dont talk about past relationship or other girls.
10. when she goes home hold on to her and say i love you like its the last time your going to see her everytime.
2006-06-25 17:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never go into a relationship with the hope of lasting a long time but you must allow yourself to enjoy every moment as it comes that way you know that you are prepared for anything that comes your way!the most important thing is that you must be with someone whom you know wont become a nuisance after some time,someone you know will keep you happy as much and as long as possible!GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-22 08:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by sbugenge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not ask anything-what is your definition of a long term relationship? what did you want to know? buy a psychology book-develop the question-and re-ask it...
2006-06-22 08:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking again with some details. That's too general a question.
2006-06-22 08:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's a little advice: They can be great and last forever or They can be hell and best to end.
2006-06-22 08:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by t20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋