2006-06-22 00:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs Diesel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always hate to hear this...
See my perspective is: A happy person, seldom strays.
So often when life and children come along, the real important things in life, and relationships... go by the wayside...
The simple act of caring for each other... and maintaining the relationship... goes undone. Sure the KIDS come first, but each other CAN'T come last. Then words are said... and the wife uses sex as a weapon (thank you Pat Benatar)...
And both partners - not just the MAN... are not FED... Not given what they want and need from the relationship.
They are an EASY PREY for someone who is willing to give them the love and attention that they crave... (until they too, start to take it for granted)...
I'm sure he still loves you as a "WIFE"... and a the mother of his children... but... Does he still relate to you as a lover? I think not.
DO you? I think not. If you did... he'd not be going elsewhere.
You asked.
2006-06-22 00:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.wha makes you think he is cheating? Maybe you ought to confront him? Spying works but then if he isn't and he catches you snooping, you have a whole new set of problems. I'd ask him straight out. (You may not get the truth)
If you really think so, and if you think he is doing it online, you could invest in a keylogger that will log every keystroke, what sites he has visited ,and anything he has typed. Do a search on this site, someone else asked this and a great website popped up.
(I'd also check for him on MySpace. Thats where I caught my man)
2006-06-22 00:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by shawny4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact situation. Been married for 11 yearsand have 2 young children but I thik he is only with me for the children and I know he loves me but not like a husband should love his wife. He treats me like a friend instead of a soul mate. good luck to you I hope you find happiness.
2006-06-22 00:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Hyper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think,he is cheating?That is the most hurtful thing ever it happened to me.I was with my ex for 12 yrs and we have two children and I thought he could never do something like that to me and we loved each other,but he did and had a child with this other person too.That hurt real bad! If you feel like he is,check it out because that is UNFORGIVABLE!!!!!!
2006-06-22 00:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by poohtiggeroo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the experts say if you suspect cheating need to confront the cheater and tell them that this situation is hurting you because------ fill it in with your feelings.
saw on channel 8 news on love and marriage segments.
or go their website and click on morning show and then love and marriage.
2006-06-22 00:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that cheats on you does NOT love you.
2006-06-22 00:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has nothing to do with the other.
Let's be honest. If he truly loved you, why would he cheat?
2006-06-22 00:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve someone who doesn't give his affection else where. I realize that you have his kids but get out now before you lose more self worth. Be a woman and show your kids how strong you can be and how someone should treat them one day.
2006-06-23 04:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in love there has to be trust and obviously you cant trust him. if he really loved you he would even think about being with someone Else. you really need to think about this. i feel really sorry for you, hope things work out.
2006-06-22 01:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by salma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to marrage counsellin and both of u promise eachother to tell the truth at all times
2006-06-22 00:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋