Lost love
2006-06-22 00:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by lina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey cheer up..... don't dishearten yourself... try to find out those points which lead to this unexpected event... may be it is a lack of something in you or her... try to find out that cause...
you can look back into past (the time when you were undergoing separation)... try to see the errors you made or she made....
once you get those reasons... try to talk them out with that girl... i am sure you will get her back if you are the first love of her too....... cos buddy.... trust me... noone , and i mean no one, forgets his/her first love.... it is always special........
once you get the cause for that, you will be in a better position.. trust me... i have tried and tested that......
2006-06-22 00:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
life is the one which make people to do something better to make their step to move forward with sad and happines.so friend try to comeout u'rself from all worries and try to think different in u'r life which makes u to fell happy you are just 28 so u have to go a long way to reach the end so friend be happpy never think of past try to do the things happly by present . keep an aim in u'r life that u have to do some thing to make u'r life happy and make the people to fell that u are the best .
bye take care reply me soon
u'r ever friend
raja
2006-06-22 00:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by raja r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, when you have waited so long to find love and then you lost it. It was probably a fling to begin with and you just didnt recognise it.
Get with your girlfriends or buddies, (you didnt indicate what sex you were), and talk about it, then move on from there. They will help you get over it and offer support, and maybe even give you leads for other people to date...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-22 00:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losing someone u love is the most difficult thing that cud ever happen to anyone.wat i can suggest is that u take ur time in getting over him ,until u are satisfied that he is trully out,bcoz the worst thing that cud happen now is u going into another relationship on the rebound.think of that person u mite hurt and think how u feel.the best way to carry on with ur life is to take it one day at a time..time heals a broken hrt
2006-06-22 00:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by casey4396 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels,it happened to me few monthes ago... but i belive that God have a plan for everyone of us & this what happened to You was done for reason,so im sure there is something good waiting U.God wanted to protect You...cos maybe this person wouldnt be a good wife/husband for tYou. So just have a faith and i hope U will be fine soon,good luck :)
2006-06-22 00:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take time and hang around with your friends for a while i lost my first love last year...after a couple of months get back out there and start going to bars and find dates...trust me u'll get over it and find someone even better....hope i helped
2006-06-22 00:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nathanael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just did something about it by writing this question. You realize you need to move on, and you will. Time will heal.
2006-06-22 00:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 28 you will get over it and who knows who is really around the corner!
2006-06-22 00:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by womam12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things that YOU have always wanted to do but didn't. Take time to get to know yourself and enjoy yourself. Good luck! If you think you are having problems with depression seek help please.
2006-06-22 00:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to mend just enjoy this time to reconnect with old friends they could be missing you.
2006-06-22 00:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋