do we always have to go and be the first one to hit it off, i think its easy and sexy if the girls would do it for a bit. give us some credit and a brake. my current girlfriend was introduced to me, and so far its great. after 2 years ago.
2006-06-21 23:48:47 · 16 answers · asked by lizardstaph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys just seem to have more pushiness in them. I introduced myself first and we've been going for almost 23 yrs. I must of done something right. :)
2006-06-21 23:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You young guys are getting smarter every day. It's an old tradition that marks back in the times of old. It comes from the day when women were considered very low in a mans world type of thing. I know that's horrible and disgusting and you don't remember that as well as I don't. As women gained power they demanded more respect from the male counterpart. Respect and courtesy was two of them. Still today some women are treated like dirt as if we are in the stone age. Women have earned the right to be asked since they've only had that privelage a short time. Besides you'll see why later on in life when marriage gets you hooked. Been there done that.
2006-06-22 06:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by LARRY P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was single I always let the guy know i was interested but I was always concerned that if i went up and hit on to him he would think i was too forward or another chick another night. Fear of being thought of as slutty or skanky is it i think, so if the guy made the first move it took some of that worry away. I'm married now so i don't have to worry anymore thank goodness.
2006-06-22 07:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well society says if we act aggresive (going up to guys) etc. We are considered fast,loose alota unkind things. Things are slowly changing. But not fast enough. But also we like to know a guy likes us. But I am sure they guys feel the same!
2006-06-22 06:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont have the time or patience to do that. If a guy starts acing lik a little boy, I move on and say, "NEXT!"
2006-06-22 06:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like feeling wanted plus they're shy and don't know if your actually interested
2006-06-22 06:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but im one of those females that makes the first move. cause im a big flirt. but it does get me into trouble cause i seem to find men that only want one thing. i made the first move on my boyfriend
2006-06-29 03:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do think girls/women prefer to be asked out , as long as it is done right and the guys dont act like idiots in the process.eithet way , if you dont ask , you dont get
2006-06-22 07:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by stuart m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like boys to go up to them cuz girls no that the boy really love them.if a girl went chasing a boy then its like the girl like the boy but the boy might not like her.
2006-06-22 06:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the feeling that some1 is after me...
i wouldnt chase a guy i'm pretty shy n not that femminist i guess
lol
2006-06-22 06:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋