The other day we were supposed to go out, i got dressed and waited for him but he never arrived, he has done this plenty of times now. When we go out with his friends he makes fun of me and he dosen't talk to me, he embarasses me in front of them doing things like grabbing my a$$ or my other private parts, he does this a lot in public or when we are with his friends.
When we go out with other girls he is rude to me but very kind to them. He is always nervous and aggressive and iven thou he knows i don't like oral sex sometimes he pushes my head against him without me wanting to till he finishes. He dosen't iven say please when he asks me things he gives orders and he only talks to me about sex in rude ways. I love him and i know he loves me but i don't like his attitude sometimes. I know is normal having problems in a relation so any suggestions?
2006-06-21 22:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by Lassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's fed up with u girl. Get out. Quickly!
2006-06-21 22:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by DazedAndConfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW .... ohhh ma God i can`t beleive u r still seeing tht guy after all the nasty stuff u said!!! gurl a relationship means RESPECT not only love `n`bla bla if he doesn`t respect u not only infront of ppl but when u two r alone then he is useing U !! YES HE IS..... if i were u i would have taught him a lesson he will never forget `n` DUMP him ... i think u should `n` must for ur own sake to DUMP him right now `n` u have the perfect excuse(s) ... take care gurl `n` have someone who really respects u not uses u for sex ...
2006-06-22 06:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by kiks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you really have to ask what all this means.
Im giving you a virtual slap in the face.
Get rid of this little boy as fast as you can.
Like now.
Now go work on your self esteem, play a team sport or pick up a hobby that you are good at.
Stay away from guys for a year.
And stop calling this punk your "boyfriend".
Hes a punk and a loser.
Hope this helps ! : )
2006-06-22 05:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a normail relationship problem hun. First of all, he's gotten TOO comfortable with the relationship. He doesn't respect what you like or don;t like anymore, and it sounds like it's to the point where he thinks he can get what he wants, when he wants. If I were you, I'd dump his *** to show him he has to respect you if he wants you.
2006-06-22 05:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by poetic_justice_unserved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him? And you know he loves you?
Uhhhh sorry to have to correct you Lassie.... That ain't love.
It sounds like you're insecure and in dire need of acceptance by virtually anyone.
My advice is for you to first learn how to love yourself. At least you've shown that you care enough about yourself to ask Q's in this anonymous forum. Good luck to you.
2006-06-22 10:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by jimbob92065 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real nasty pill. Drop this loser and find a respectful gentleman. You deserve better, girl.
2006-06-22 05:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not love, DUMP him he ovously has some issues, i wouldnt stay with him at all!!! good luck
2006-06-22 05:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Just_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him thats not love..he's using you like a door mat!!(wiping his feet on you)..
2006-06-22 05:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not in love with you, he's abusing you. Get out now!
2006-06-22 05:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mizbehavin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f7ck him you derseve better
2006-06-22 08:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by butterfingers72000@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋