2006-06-21 22:31:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will work.. depends on the couple if they really love each other.. coz if the ocuple loves each other very much, no matter what happens, they wont let go of the love that theyre holding..
2006-06-21 22:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by g25_19_21p 5 · 13⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships take time and patience, Long distance relationships all depend on the couple but more or less on the individual themself. I've known alot of people who have actually lasted a long time in a long distance relation and I've known some who haven't. Funniest thing about long distance relation is if the person is tempted to cheat or not. This question can be answered by how well you know the person. If you only known the person for short amount of time (6-8 months) then you might not know him/her as well as you think.
2006-06-22 05:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by James K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very often. Most long distance relationships end after a couple months or even less but other times it works out for both the couple.
2006-06-22 05:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be working as long as You two has commitmen. Dont ever cheating on the back. It`s all based on Trust, once You loose it, and everything come into mess.
I have ever having such relationship. It was working for a year and our paces seperated oceans (2 different island)...me and my girl friend.
I tell you what, when You two have commitmen wanna this thing working and it will.
It has proved, nowadays she become my wife, we get merried last December`05.
See....no problem at all having long distance relationship
2006-06-22 05:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does work..they have to have faith on one another,loyalty to the other partner and trust.sometimes long distance relationships works out better than the normal relationships .this is because the long distance relationships' couples tend to communicate and connect better when they are keepin in touch.
isn't there's a saying that goes,''absence makes the heart grew fonder''
well i cant deny that its hard to maintain these kinda relationship but if they really persever and work for it ,it'll definitely work..
why hell not?
2006-06-22 05:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a LD relationship at the moment. We lived together for a while before he had to go overseas for a stint, so i know just all the physical things that i'm missing. I think that LDR's can work if you make them work. There obviously has to be trust in the first place. Trust that they won't go to someone else, trust that you're oen and honest to each other about 'everything!' - v. impt - i mean i tell him anytime a guy hits on me, and he what happens to him. Communication is crucial...you can't just roll over in bed and start chatting, or just text them or randomly walk in the room and cal their name. It takes a huge leap in the effort you need to put in to make sure that you're communicating regularly and deeply, not just superficial stuff like.."mm ok day, u? night" or something..u need to make what you say count, because that's all the contact they're going to have from you till next time. LDR's take about 3 times as much effort to maintain as one's where you're in normal contact with the person, you have to make up for the physicalness that you're missing...like unless u have regular webcamera sessions, then you have to be a lot more expressive in your words etc, because you can't see they're face or the way that they're responding to what you say, so you have to be very honest and open and willing to go the extra mile for each other so you both feel satisfied with being in-touch with each other. If one person isn't satified then they'll become more lonely and depressed and the constant surge of male company in touching range and able to have long conversations with you without having to go to an internet cafe, would just end up being too appealing. Basically what i'm trying to say: LDR's work if you want them to and make them work. The trust has to be there to begin with or else it just won't even start to happen. Honesty and openess is essential, you can't keep a relationship alive let alone develop it if you're a clam. And communication....this is in my opinion where the hard work is...the convenience of having the loved one there at anytime to have random chats too is gone...a lot of effort needs to go into keeping the communication alive between the two of you and to a degree where both of you is happy with how you're communicating and how much.
2006-06-22 05:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by mischief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the right person. my wife and i had a long distance relationship for 15 years before we were finally united and married last year.
2006-06-23 09:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Supah1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if it is a strong relatioship and no just a pas time. If it is a big love works very well in every distance possible
2006-06-22 05:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , they do if you put your heart and soul in to it and send a good morning and goodnight message religiously each and every day yes they do work .....Only thing is that you got to make the other person realise that you are there for him or her .....
tc
trekmate
2006-06-22 05:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by trekmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as well as short distance ones....
2006-06-22 05:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it works for me but still we're trying to do things to make up and not to be on long distance again, it's hard but we have to overcome it. we know that someday, we will be together forever and not to be separated again.
2006-06-22 05:41:56 · answer #11 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋