Why (SOME) women are always trying to bring hubby to her family side and make him forget about his own mother or sister???Isn't better to add instead of resting family members??? (And create healthy relations between in-laws)
2006-06-21 22:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
because evolution hasn't yet caught up with this aspect of humanity. women have traditionally ruled over the household domain and have been socialized to pay particular attention to the social aspects of their lives - including maintaining control over who has access to her family (husband and children included). Like an "Alpha Female" type, she is fighting for control over the social and household domain....often causing a competitive relationship between herself and other females. Animal instinct, I guess.
2006-06-21 22:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Immaturity, jealousy, selfishness, being a control freak, etc. You as a great question. Look at some of the questions here - I saw one by a woman who wouldn't let her husbands parents keep their 2 month old child because "they don't do things the way my mother does them." This is a big reason why marriages are in trouble all across the country. Of course, when the guy doesn't go along, he is uncooperative, doesn't show love, is insensitive about his wife's feelings, etc.
My mother and three sisters taught me how to love a woman. Why would my wife try to cut that off? Oh yeah, she did. And she finally divorced me because I didn't care for her or something like that.
2006-06-22 02:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. Why is the son's inheritance two times his sister? it is greater beneficial than 0, i might say. Num. 27: a million-11 states that could desire to an israelite died, the inheritance is going to son (or sons), and if he would not have sons, the valuables is going to the daughters, if he has no newborn, the inheritance pass to his brother(s). So, in case myself, a girl with brothers, If I observed biblical rules, i does no longer have have been given any inheritance while my dad kicked the bucket final 12 months. Alhamdulillah, subhanallah i'm muslim. And why two times? a girl's wealth is hers by myself, while adult adult males have the criminal accountability to help his kinfolk and his lady kinfolk contributors. I artwork with the total advantages from my hubby. yet he's familiar with I have no criminal accountability in any understand to make a contribution to the kinfolk funds, if i don't experience like it. Btw it is exciting that num 27 did no longer point out spouse's inheritance. it is because of the fact it is understood that spouse belongs to husband, so each and every thing that she has is her husband's 2. The compelled marriage it is greater cultural. All my kinfolk contributors, the two in indonesia, uk, jordan, continually ask their daughters in the event that they are pleased with the suitor. If no longer, they notion will by no ability be properly-known. Btw, i like the bible verse that mentioned if a girl marries a husband, and the guy mentioned she's no longer virgin, he can take her to courtroom and her father will could desire to proove that she's virgin. If she's shown virgin, the hubby will pay the daddy a hundred shekels and he will proceed to be married to her as long as they stay. Why the nice isn't given to the female? Why is her testimony valueless? no longer even heard? Why oh why you rigidity a girl to stay with a guy who introduced to the worldwide which you're actually not organic? If the female is muslim, she has the surprising to start a divorce. unfortunately she's no longer, so a divorce can purely settle for by the husband Edit: i forget to point earlier if the female is shown no longer maid/virgin she would be able to be stoned to loss of existence Please verify deuteronomy 22: 13-21 i can purely say, you greater verify your bible first earlier working around telling the worldwide how bible illiterate and ignorant you're
2016-12-08 11:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if women are trying to make their husbands forget about their mom's and sister's,the family has to realize that he is married to her and not to the mother and or sister and that they shouldn't be so interfering.
2006-06-22 02:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men dont know how should they behave after marriage some times they pay attention to their mother and sister(s) more than their wives , some times women are too jelious they dont wnat to share their hubbies with other women some times women wnat all your feeling and good things be only for them , and some times mens side behave bad to women and hurt them they interfere to their lives and other things...
2006-06-21 22:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by nancy20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should most definitly be open comunication on both sides.Your wife should understand that these people have been a part of your life long before her and you need their love just as much as she relies on her mothers love and guidance,
2006-06-22 00:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that happened to you,then l think your GF its a very jealous person,she doesn't want you to have close contact with other girl,even your Mom and Sister,
Get rid of her.
2006-06-22 03:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foremost, insecurity. Somewhere along these women's life, their belief system became distorted. They cannot feel validated unless they have no competion with any other female for their man's attention.
2006-06-21 23:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by colleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't have a healthy relationship with the girls of your family. she must not like how you behave around them.
2006-06-21 22:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? I don't know any women like that....Thank God.
2006-06-21 22:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋