I am Muslim and they(Girl Friend and Her Husband) are Hindu.
2006-06-21 22:25:58 · 26 answers · asked by NaSh S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Infact She is Just Engaged and Marriage will be on 24th December 2006. She is not happy with her would be Hubby. But she is worried about family reputation.
2006-06-21 22:43:47 · update #1
No what good would come of that....she needs to go on with her life and if you really cared about her....you would not want to bring about anything negative...by that I mean it is not her husbands business what she had for past relationships...that was strictly her own business and I dont feel any good would come of that....surely you wouldnt want to hurt her in any way....hopefully. If I were her I certainly would not want anyone to come up to my husband to tell him anything about me.....would only be hurtful..... take care mo
2006-06-21 22:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by rosepetals 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO If you have any feelings for her at all you will not want to hurt her and put more stress in this relationship then is probably already there. You telling him won't accomplish anything except to make him be resentful and hurtful toward her. I know it is tough, but it sounds like she has very strong family ties and her path has been chosen. you need to move forward with your life. Do not wait for her to leave him or whatever, but if you two are truly meant to be together you will find each other again when circumstances are not so unfavorable.
2006-06-21 22:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Nash, I'm Muslim too and the exact thing happened to me..
I completely understand and I know it hurts so much but believe me over time the hurt will disappear.
Try to take your mind off it brother.. look for a different girl to befriend, and keep busy so you don't think about it.. I know it can drive you crazy but you have to get a hold of yourself and don't let it get to you.. we are after all human as I Quaran says..
Pray and that will calm your emotions in time.. Pray brother..
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry
P.S
Don't hesitate to contact me regarding this subject or any-other, I'm always here to help whoever is in need of it..
Peace
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2006-06-21 22:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your heart is hurting. But nothing is going to change the situation. Your ex-girlfriend has made a choice. What you can do is to let go and detach from the past. Time will heal. Look forward.
What has past, is gone. Don't bother.
The future has not yet come.
The present is going to past. Can't stop it.
Just enjoy life from moment to moment.
What is real, is now.
2006-06-21 22:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to get your throat slashed! It's none of your concern man! Let the past go! She's married now, let it go! There are too many Muslim women out here to be caught up in something so meaningless! There goes one now! -progress.
2006-06-21 22:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like! What good will it do to you,him or her?
Ifyou had to do something, you should have done earlier. Now its too late. better stay away from them and let sleeping dogs lie.
Telling himwill only adversely affecttheir relationship. They are married now For god's sake! . There's nothing you can now do.
Sorry but that's that.
2006-06-21 22:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel bad for both of you... to me it would seem that i don't think anyone should have to marry anyone they don't love but if she wants to go through with the wedding then it's her choice. I have to say that if you told her future husband would it change anything.. be honest. Does he want to marry her or is it parents that are forcing them to do something neither of them wants...
2006-06-22 01:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by fairychild20_1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love her and think she is your true love soal mate then i suggest you start planning on where you two are going to escape to,build alife else where,start all the plans now so you two can just take off strat looking for a job in another state and housing,
2006-06-22 00:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r a muslim....then u should meet her husband and ask for his forgiveness.
U know the rules....
But keep the guilty parts to yourself...good luck...
2006-06-21 22:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by brudder... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no do not no matter what, if it is an arranged marraige they have to make it work and if you go and do that you are making it difficult for them, and if it doesnt work between them and they get divorced she will have absolutely nowhere to go becoz her family will disown her at all costs because their marraige was a strictly business deal between the famalies.... leave her alone plz to save her....
2006-06-21 22:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋