What should i do?

Question

Help me plz!?!
My boyfriend is not answering to me on the phone. He promised yesterday after our walk in the park that he will call me in the afternoon but he didn't.When i called him his mum told me that he is out.The next morning i do the same but no one was answering me.
What does that mean?Can you help me.
I am younger than him and we usualy have a fight about my going out and my resticts of my parents.They don't let me go out and stay all night or all day.Is that the problem.
What should i do?

Answer 1

i would consider that he's probably found someone with less restrictions on them and is seeing someone else. you will eventually find someone, just give it time. i wouldn't keep calling him at all. here's what my aunt used to tell me........ a girl chases a boy until he catches her... what she was trying to say is let the boy do the chasing- just let him know you're available but don't chase him. its the thrill of the chase, you let him do the chasing.

Answer 2

This guy honestly doesn't sound like he's gonna do you any good hun. I'm not sure how old u are or he is, but he should recognise and accept that your position is that you have to obey the rules laid down by your parents. If he really liked you and just wanted to spend as much time with you as possible, then he would accept this and work around it, by making the times when you CAN stay out the best and most worth while. He sounds like he justs wants his own way about things, that he wants you there when HE wants it, not given consideration to your position in the matter and the trouble he might get you in if he forces you to choose to stay out longer just so he can have a happy night. This guy isn't mature and seems very into only himself and what makes him happy, what he wants to do etc...i may be wrong, but i'm just going on the impression that your question's given me. I'd try to get him to look at reason and understand but if not then it's better for you if you get someone who will work in with you just as you work in with him. The thing about relationships is that it's essentially about compromise, not about sacrifice really. I'd have to say that you should keep in mind that there's always the possibility that he's finding or found someone else who's available whenever he wants to stay out all night, or he's avaoiding you...or...in a more innocent way of thinking..maybe he's just had random other things on his mind like trouble with school work or a family issue or something and he's just simply forgotten to ring you and needs his space to sort his stuff out. Either way, you deserve better treatment. Gd luck with whatever happens!

Answer 3

Unless your boyfriend is hurt, he is avoiding you. There were times I was so upset with a girlfriend that I just did not want to talk to her. Either you are on the verge of a breakup or you need to give him space to work out whatever is bothering him. Leave him alone, he'll call eventually, don't ask him why he did not call, and give him time to explain. If he does not explain after a couple of days, dump him before he dumps you.

Answer 4

I'll tell you what you should do - drop him! You don't need that kind of disrespect in your life! If he really loves you, then he'd take the time out to call you. Not calling is a form of abuse and I wouldn't tolerate it if I were you. Watch, when you break up with him, he'll start calling then! You don't need that. -move on!

Answer 5

well i don`t think tht ur parents being strict is the prob he definetly knew about it when he first met u .... i beleive it's either he is playin hard to get or he found someone else ..... i think u shouldn`t call any more u did ur role `n` called `n` cared let him do his part `n` find out if he really cares for u .... if not don`t be sad or mourn u`ll eventually find someone better ... life is the greatest teacher hun

Answer 6

I think that he thinks that you are maybe playing mind games with him by telling him that your parents don't allow you to go out. Most girls play emotional mind games with guys to find out if the guys really likes her, i think that it applies to your problem. The best thing you can do is to tell him that you aren't playing mind games and tell him how you really feel about him, be as open as possible about you feeling towards him.

Answer 7

He does not want to make relationship with you, so he ignores. Don't worry, try to find another boy friend.

Answer 8

your parents being strict with you is because they care and love you,and i think you are still very young,that's why.
if your boyfriend truly loves you,he would understand.
don't despair if he does not call you or return your call. his action only shows how fickle is his feelings for you.

Answer 9

it could be about your parents and if he's not going to accept that you cant go out all the time, leave him alone and he'll quickly see wat he has lost and also try talking to your parents, ask them why you cant have a little more freedom and promise them that you have responsibility and keep that promise, eventually they will learn to trust you more....

Answer 10

You should know that if he loves you he will call you, if he dosen't he wont and you will get on with life with or without him