so i have determined that i am underweight, maybe anorexic, how do i explain this to my mom. when she found out i cut, she took me to an institue, and i really don't want to be there. so how do i tell her without her freaking out?
2006-06-21 22:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
The first part of your question is "how do I get help". And that's where you should be for now, an institution.
At least the anorexic part is life threatening, - and that should not be trifled with. Between nutrient deficiencies, and self-destruction tendencies, you could be another "Terri Schiavo" and wake up dead.
It also sounds like you've moved on to step 2, - and that's to negotiate yourself out of the lime light by promising anything.
2006-06-21 22:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's very good that you want to get help ! A lot of girls deny they have a problem,so you are doing the right thing by wanting to get help.do you think if you sit down with your mom and explain to her that you want help, but an institution is out of the question,she will listen?if not then talk to your family doctor or if you want look on the internet for hotlines or support groups that can get you started. I truely hope and pray you get help and recover from this problem.good luck sweety and God bless you.please let me know how you make out crowjr68@verizon.net
2006-06-22 05:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by crowjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-22 05:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by G N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell your mom but tell her in a soft gentle way and when she's in a good mood, it's better to be healthy than at home instead of an institute. My teacher told us he was to skinney when he was young and his doctor told his mom that for a month or two right before you go to bed drink a huge glass of an extra fattened chocolate milkshake. And make sure you're lying down in bed too.
2006-06-22 05:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Flurry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared to tell her.. she's your mum and she wants to help you, just tell her you don't want to go to that place and she will take you the doctor to talk about it..
Don't just leave it girl.. it's dangerous to be underweight!!!
Go talk to her now.. your health comes first not your fears because you wouldn't have any fears if you didn't have your health..
Go on, get up and have a talk to her,.. start with mum look I'm scared to tell you because you might freak out and you scare me when you freak out.. please hear me out, I know you will because you love me and no doubt I love you too.. then cuddle her and start talking to her...
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry
2006-06-22 05:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that your not eating right and you are worried and want to change your eating habits.This is very impotant that your doctor know-you can become very,very sick with this desease and maybe even die.Talk to her now!Go to your doctor now!!it sounds like therapy and medicine need to be tried,.Alot of times when people have eating problems they are the only ones who feel like they are fat and they feel out of control of their life-do tell your mom that to get better you just want some help so you can be the boss and help yourself with therapy and maybe meds.tell her that you are happiest at home with her but you cant stop this desease by yourself.PLEASE GET HELP!!!!
2006-06-22 05:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by opinkpigglett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should take you to see your doctor, and then go from there. The doctors will know whether your weight is normal or not for your height and age.
2006-06-22 05:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to increase you'r weight is to eat black grapes' if not eat bananas,or non-veg like eggs(best) and daily exerise is must b'coz muscles weigh more than fat
2006-06-22 05:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EDIT apprently these people dont know how hard it is to tell your parents somthing
Not every mommy is june cleaver ya know
stupid people
Start eating regulary excersise and eat (not chocolate and soda though it wont help)
2006-06-22 05:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a start that u have admitted to yourself that u have a problem. i am sure your mother will help in the best way she can. You have to take small steps and soon u will see yourself happy and well again. good luck.
2006-06-22 05:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by cathharrynj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋