How do you tell someone who really likes you he's got a bad body odour and too much body hair without hurting his feelings?
2006-06-21 20:34:42 · 18 answers · asked by asianhotcakes30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let them know you really like them but they have a wee problem. be honest its better that you let them know now before it gets to the point where youll just dump him and maybe the next person will do the same and he will never know.
2006-06-21 20:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by lace1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one! I stopped seeing a guy whose company I really enjoyed (be was hot!) because he started having body odours. The first time it happened I thought "Oh well, it can happen to everyone" but it happened the next time as well. I am afraid that it will happen the 3rd time as well, so I never agreed to meet him again.
I guess if you are intimate with him, if you go over his place or he comes over your place tell him you would like to take a shower together, or that it would really turn you on to watch him shower. I don't know in what kind of relationship you are.
If you dislike hair, what is he to do? He can trim certain areas (like the pubic area - feel free to ask him to trim it, they don't get offended by it) but what is he to do with the rest of the hair?
Don't tell him anything if you think you can't make it work for him. I have met women married to people who stink, it's a fact. I guess there is someone for everyone
2006-06-21 20:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to be diplomatic when approaching someone about this subject. If you are the owner or manager defer the matter to them. I would suggest someone find out if this person is homeless or lives in a shelter perhaps that is the reason for th offensive odor. The pub can be creative and have a door prize for the the most visits in Mont or week and present the winner with a nice basket filled with toiletries. Please include soap, deodorant (non scented), wash cloths,(2) large bath towels, mouthwash, cologne (soft scented) tooth paste and tooth brushes,razors and shaving cream. Dint forget a clean pair of underwear as well as a clean pair of pants and a clean shirt. You want to keep the longtime patrons while not losing your day to day business. You will have to have one for a woman as will not to make the guy feel bad.
2016-05-20 10:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be to harsh on him!!
Goto the local drugstore or shopping center and buy him cologne or body spray and tell him it's a gift for being such a good friend. I wouldn't just come out and tell him, because more than likely you are going to hurt his feelings. Hope I helped ya out!
2006-06-21 20:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out with him anymore. But if you really like him, get him a spa certificate for a wax job or tell him you like smooth bodies. They are a turn on or something like that. Stress that the pit hair holds odor and you swear you are smelling something stinky.
2006-06-21 20:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by 30somethingfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell him. Let him know that you’re turned off by it. Sometimes being blunt is the best way to get your point across.
2006-06-21 20:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Valag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice about it please at least .Just tell him you smell something when he is around you and go is it you and dont make him feel embarrsed about it,and suggest to him you love men that shave and you think he would look so sexy shaven and even ask if you could shave him if he didnt know how.That simple!
2006-06-21 20:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by wildblonde_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like men who have most of their body hair removed and smell like ivory soap.
2006-06-21 20:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for puck sake run away! Find someone who smell good.
2006-06-21 21:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not goin out w/him anymore..
im easily turned off by body odor so no way i'll go out w/that person agen... whhhheewww
2006-06-21 20:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋