he did it in front of his friends.so i made a scene by yelling back @ him, we wre so immature about the whole thing.and then he speed off to a club with his friends.i was so furious that i started crying...CRYING!..i never cry...
and i called him and said that the whole thing wouldnt havent started if it wasnt for blahblahblah....anyways...he called me back when he got to the club and i picked up and then hung up cus i really didint feel like talking to that SOB
so he called back an hour or so later and i answered bc i had cooled down a little bit...he was still @ the club, and all he was saying was..."i love you so much, i love you i love you i love you, please tell me you want me back"
i was silent the whole phone call.....so he's waiting for me to either call or he told me to email him..but thats bull ****...i dont feel like it.one of my friends says... take him back,yalll love each other.bt the other says... no! dont even answer the phone...
which one should i listen too??
2006-06-21 20:28:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no, he broke up with you, his *** needs to beg for at least a month before you take him back. If he's worth it.
2006-06-21 20:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right - you need some time to stop and think about your relationship, so turn your phone off. Your boyfriend acted in a disrespectful way. He shouldn't have yelled at you in public, and he certainly should not have broken up with you in front of your friends. If I were you, I would think about this:
1. What are his positive qualities? Is he kind? Is he nice? Does he treat you with respect? Is he a positive part of your life?
2. What are his negative qualities? Based on your description, it sounds like your boyfriend is a bit immature. Yelling at you in public is a definite no-no. If you guys are having a disagreement, he should know to say excuse me to your friends and take you off to the side to discuss it like adults. His breaking up with you in public sounds like he was just trying to be dramatic and get attention. That is a warning sign of insecurity and instability. Unfortunately, you often see the worst side of a person when he/she gets mad at you. It sounds like your boyfriend does not know what "anger management" is just yet. Do you want to stick around and teach him? Or are you fed up and ready to find someone new?
Believe me, there are lots of guys out there who will treat a woman with kindness, respect, loyalty, and tenderness. Really think about what this relationship is adding to your life. If you do decide to get back together with him, be sure you tell him that his behavior was completely unacceptable and that you refuse to be in a relationship like that. Bad relationships can erode your self-esteem, waste your time and energy, and give you emotional baggage that may take years to leave behind. Don't settle.
2006-06-21 20:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you shouldn't listen to anyone and you should follow your heart but he does sound like he really loves you yet what he did was stupid he was probably only try to show his friends that he the big guy in the relationship( decision maker) but he probably deep down really sorry for what he did. I think maybe you should give it some time just a few days.
2006-06-21 20:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by awad2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why did he break off with you in front of your freinds?thats insulting!you feel really humilated now. i understand.talk to him. ask him why he insulted you. tell him your feelings. you people have feelings but i think you two are too young for a relationship.go out as friends for sometime. if your boyfriend has an anger problem then take him to anger management class. try to work it out and tell him that you wont tolerate any of these outbursts.
2006-06-21 20:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend made a huge scene in front of his friends breaking up with you. Don't over think this. Keep the break and count yourself lucky. His actions show he has no respect for you, and if you were to go back to him, it would show him and his friend you don't deserve respect. And we both know you deserve it.
2006-06-21 20:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart but then walk a step at a time and at the pace that would ensure that you spend the same amount of time taking that one step as it would take you to take five normally
2006-06-21 20:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bennetton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie what the hell is this...........
you deserve something better & not this s**t.
now you have dumped him,don't take him back.
if you take him back,it'll prove that you have no respect for yourself...
you are not a doormat on which your bf can walk in & out.specially when he has insulted you in front of his friends,you need to show him his actual place...
your crying is not bad because you needed to vent out your emotions but now no more crying for a DUMB ***.....
gals never have scarcity of bfs ...........there are lots of fishes out there.... DON'T TAKE HIM BACK!!!!
TAKE CARE & GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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2006-06-21 20:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are plenty of nice guys who would be happy to date you. Not to mention that how he broke up with you was completely disrespectful. That alone tells me that he isn't worthy of a second chance.
2006-06-21 20:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Valag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Don't take him back...u gotta show him that he can't treat you like that especially in front of his friends, he's gotta respect you and since he doesn't then it should be over for good!
2006-06-21 20:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋