How can I make this work?

Question

My boyfriend (because of his parent's divorce) thinks that a relationship that has a lot of distance makes it stronger and therefore we dont need to see eachother everyday. I on the other hand, was raised to spend as much time as you can with the one's you love. I am trying patiently to give him time to adapt to the way i feel about wanting to see him, and i have done so also by giving him his space. But while i give him space i feel neglected and unappreciated. I try not to feel that way but sometimes he makes me feel really bad for wanting to spend time with him. He thinks that seeing eachother twice daily is too much and doesnt see the point in spending that much time together. So i need some opinions on how to make this work.

Answer 1

talk talk and talk!!
i really feel that communication is the main key for a relationship to work and strengthen.
i really appreciate you for giving him his space and for being patient.
but please don't bottle up your feelings.tell him what you feel.
hope this helps.
good luck!!

Answer 2

I agree with him. Twice daily is just too much! Eventually you'll get bored and tired of each other. Try that idea of his maybe you'll like it. You have to miss each other just a little bit y'know!

Answer 3

you don't have to see each other daily ; 3-4 times per week is just great

Answer 4

its simple - he doesnt luv u as much as u luv him..
sorry 2 say that but that's d truth based on ur description..

when u luv someone, u wana b w/that person 24/7, aint i right???

think abt it. wud u like 2b w/someone who doesnt wana b w/u???

if i were u, i'll let go of him & look 4 a guy who'll wana b w/u every single second

Answer 5

absence makes the heart gow fonder

Answer 6

he really loves u ? openly talk to him and tell ur feelings straightly.
i think this will work.