it's like i have a tatto on my forehead that say's A**hole Magnet come and get it. Which I'm actually very nice sweet women trying to find a nice man that may want to be a father to my son.
his dad is a dead beat so who can blame me for wanting to find a real man to a be a father to him
2006-06-21 19:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by sweet_mommie_04 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
when u get the answer can u please give me a personal call and let me know. all of them are like that and the ones that are not have potential. it still doesn't make me gay. i love men but if you're nice to them they dog u out. if you're nasty 2 them then that wil be a turn off 2 u. it's called balance. mix it up and it will work. be nice but don't take no sh**!
2006-06-21 20:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is going to replace the father your son is missing. Any man you date can be a good role model, potentially, or a friend to your son, but nobody can fill the void left by his dad. Further, sometimes it's important to step away and re-examine ourselves and our goals before trying to add other people to the plan. Once you assess why the previous relationship did not work, you will have a better idea of how to make better choices for yourself (and your son) in the future.
2006-06-22 03:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost remember that you don't NEED a man to make life complete. Second, while you are talking to guys, make sure they understand that your son is priority one.
Finally (and this is probably gonna be the hardest one for most women), don't ignore that nice guy that has always been right there for you. Every girl who's been in a bad relationship has a good guy friend who listens to her cry about how rotten guys are. Usually that is the guy who is willing to sit with you and hold you while you're going through crap with a bad guy is the one who wants to be your good guy.
2006-06-22 02:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rev T L Clark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give into temptation. And raise your standards.
I dated idiot after idiot...finally decided to take a two-year break from dating to 'weigh my options' and go somewhere with my own life. A few weeks ago I met the most amazing guy...and although we care about each other very much, we stepped back and decided that it was better to know each other before getting involved. We're still getting to know each other, and we're not dating yet. Sucks because I'm dying to just jump him, but I like that he's willing to take it slow and be friends first.
2006-06-22 02:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by sayhello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a female who really wants a nice guy? Nah, they don't exist. The only way a girl/woman wants a nice guy in their life is when they need a shoulder to cry on before going back to the one that made them cry in the first place. Advice: change your choosing criteria.
2006-06-22 02:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by quntmphys238 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't really have te answer for you, but choose your man wisely. Your child comes first and there is not many men out there that will treat him the way he is suppose to be treated... this is comming from experiance i have 2 boys, and when they are not the father, it is so diffrent.....Good luck to you and your son...
2006-06-22 03:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i'm young and a preyeen goin on 13 in august. But get aggresive and don't let them men treat u like that keep them in check. Tell them i Will beat yo assss if i find out u cheatin on me or say bitchhhhhhhhh you don't talk to me like that i'll put my foot up your assssssssss
2006-06-22 02:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by startainment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to concentrate on your son and stop looking. Pray in earnest to God to bring a good, decent, kind, loving man that will love your son and realize that you and your son are a package deal and that one doesn't come without the other and let it go.
2006-06-22 02:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by buggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋