I'm going to see him at a party tomorrow...I've loved him for several years...he's perfect, even in his flaws...and I adore him...how should I tell him without scaring him...??...should I use actions not words to convey my feelings??? PLEASE HELP...I'M TAKING ACTION TOMORROW!
2006-06-21 19:12:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should try actions instead of words for sure. Use the body language that all women know to catch his attention. Don't say anything though, if he is how you described him, he is complex and dynamic and would not want you to just spill to him. Play his game against him...be just as mysterious and subtle with your hints. Throw it out there in a way that gets him thinking the same way you are. Just be careful not to put it out there too much, but at the same time don't drag it out too long. Good luck...I wish you the best!
2006-06-21 19:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in time,, sheeesh.... First, why do you call him mysterious? If you have followed and are in the feelings for him, then you should know how he will respond by now. I would say that the best approach is to get him in somewhat a quiet area of the party and tell him that you have had feelings for him and would like to explore them further with him. He will give an answer and I do hope he is honest, that way you will not be led on and you can either go for it or at least know where you stand.
2006-06-21 19:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like ur normal self, but when u go there and talk 2 him just start asking him hows life, where do u work and other stuff,then out of no where ask him if he has a girlfriend, and if he says he doesnt ask him if u would like 2 go out on a date 2 a movie or out 2 eat. then take it from there, and tell him how u feel about him, or see if he has any feelings for u. Good luck and dont get nervous u'll do fine. if he ends up havin a gf or he doesnt want a girl - as long as u tryed and maybe it will all work out if not at lest u tryed. but good luck and keep ur head up.
2006-06-22 05:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by ohboy152000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward. Be yourself. Tell him exactly what you feel but keep in mind that you've spent a lot of time focusing on him and him becoming aware of your interest will be impacting enough, without him having to know that you've put so much energy into the relationship that you hope will evolve.
Let him know that you appreciate his reserved personality, tell him why you like him, and tell him that you know this "is coming from left field", and that you understand that he'll need some time to think about it.
2006-06-21 19:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mesa P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quiet guys usally appreciate silence. It sounds weird, but just try to hang out around / near him without saying to much, but make it clear that you are there for him. He'll take notice sooner or later, and your silent affection will speak much more loudly than an entire evening of chatting.
Just remember that guys aren't really that complicated and usually, we're not actually thinking about anything!
Good luck.
2006-06-21 19:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Argon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him, don't use actions right away if you go up to him and start getting physical with him in a good way. you may still scare him away. tell him your feelings as hard as it may be to get the conversation started once you start telling him how your heart feels it WILL GET EASIER believe me i speak from experience i did this with the woman i eventually married. we have been married for 7 years now. good luck let me know how it goes
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2006-06-24 16:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by natedog2905 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to a quiet place after the party, there tell him all of the things you've been wanting to say after all this years of loving him surely you will find the right words to say. after telling him that you love, let fate decide if your meant to be together.. lots of luck girl^^
2006-06-21 19:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Caloy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel and let it go from there tell him that u have like him for a long time and u would like to take it to the next level best of luck
2006-06-21 19:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt like theres no tomorrow. nothing gets the message round more than being intrusive and touching a guy, as soon as a girl touches you and is intrusive u know theyre comfortable with you and theyre keen. eye contact too, and be socially adaptable
2006-06-21 19:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the excect same place but I personly trying to figure it out myslf but I think you should get some courage and just ask which is diffacult
2006-06-21 19:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by thegreat_neo3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋