Ok i've been w/ my boyfriend for a month already and he keeps on asking me when were gonna kiss!!?

Question

well i love this guy to death but the thing is were barely in the seventh grade and i dont think its appropiate to be kissing or making-out with him right now!! But then the other side of me really wants to cuz like I said i love him. So i want to kiss him but i dont know how i should do it!!!! plz help me im confused

Answer 1

If you only want to because he keep asking you then wait because you don't seem comfortable. But you're want to because you feel comfortable then go ahead. If you don't think you're ready tell him. If he likes you he should be able to respect your decision and wait until you're ready.

Answer 2

Your confused because it has probably crossed your mind , if we start to kiss what else will he ask .Your too young to be dating .But the 14 year old I use to driver to school can't come back until she has her baby , I seen her and Surprise , surprise he has a new girlfriend .( I'm a school bus driver ).At least your asking , hope some of us realize your too young . Be careful and continue to think about , if I would kiss would he ask me to do more , if so how do I reply then .Some guys will say if you really love me , you'll let me ........or you'd show me or if your can't prove you love me , I'll break up with you .News at this age , you should be worried about what he wants from you ! I'm making a bigger thing out of this than others might , because I see too much of this .12 year old girls being called #$@^^*&^$^(%%#! By her first love as he and guys walk past her laughing , or girls even younger being called unthink able names .He may not be like this , but as I told a girl , why get upset , you know what kind of girl you are ,But she was cring too hard because She Loves him . Stay friends .

Answer 3

Perhaps you can discuss this with your mother, or a responsible adult who can help you make the right choice. You see, once you start you can't stop. Now he's asking to kiss, then he will want more, and so will you. Have you ever wondered why 13 year olds get pregnant at such a young age, it is form accepting invitations like these and then getting so addicted and wanting more. So make your choice, do you really want to risk your whole future for a little bit of fun. Besides, most boys his age never brush their teeth and have dirty saliva coming up their throats from the digestive system? Dont believe me? Ask your school nurse.

Answer 4

Just let it go... If he kissed you, allow yourself to be kissed. Even if it is your first time, he will lead the way and you'll know exactly what to do. Trust me... I've been in your shoes before. Hope everything works fine at the movies.

Answer 5

Don't ever stop trusting your gut feelings, they can keep you out of trouble. If you aren't ready to, then you're not, and when you are it'll probably just kinda happen when it's supposed to.

And...if you decide you wish to just for the sake of having kissed him and knowing what it's like, there is no harm in an innocent kiss at your age, like a quick smooch on the lips just because. ; ) You don't have to make out if you don't want to. I don't recommend get into deeper more adult kissing until you are older and more ready.

Answer 6

First off hunny its not love, its puppy love, and if this guy is pressuring you in doing something you don't feel like you are ready to do then he is not the guy for you. You should feel comfortable with kissing a guy before you actually kiss him. Think for a moment if he is pressuring you in kissing him what else might he try to pressure you in doing?? Sound to me like you need to dump him and find someone that will wait for you to be ready, because they care for you and don't want you to be uncomfortable.

Answer 7

wow! @ first i thought that was really wierd, but i guess i had the same problem when i was in 6th. But if he's presuring u 2 do something yur not ready 4, then tell him your not ready. if he really does love u then he should understand, and wait. But if he does care then u shouldn't be with him because he's just trying to get something outta u. O and thats pretty stupid that he has to ask u to kiss him, it should just happen when it's ment 2!

Answer 8

well I'm a father and if it was my daughter i would tell her that there is a difference between kissing and making out. if you truly love him and he you. then kissing wouldn't hurt anything. but be careful that that's where it ends and let him know that its as far as you want to go. or you can start kissing him and see if hes going to try and talk you in to doing something more and that will tell you if he truly loves you or if hes just trying to get in to your pants. because its sad to say but boys will say anything to get what they want, and most times its in to your pants. that's what all boys his age are thinking about.so let him know your not ready for sex and that kissing is fine and that if he wants more then that to find some other sucker!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

next time he asks, kiss him.
why? when it comes to love you have to do what feels right.
you feel that you want to kiss him. then do. that's how love works.
so long as he wants to too then do so without any regrets.you love him? and you show it? if you're really worried about kissing, then hugging is a safe option. but still I say do the first!

happy smooching.

Answer 10

Try a hug and a kiss of the cheek. You have plenty of time to get to the real thing.

Answer 11

kiss the guy that you love. it isnt love that youre going through right ow. trust me, ive gone through it too. dont look for the guy, and the guy will come to you.