2006-06-21 18:54:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ummm..... no. Speaking as a mom of 3 girls, I would say it's possible your mom is distracted sometimes. I hope that's the case. I suppose it's possible that she really doesn't care, but I don't know your mom, so I couldn't say. But if you need a "mom like" person to talk to, I'd be happy to do what I can. (((((((Huggggg))))))))))
2006-06-21 19:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by clayladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am answering this from a mum's point of view here, and please dont make rude comments about what I am going to say here!
I love my kids deeply ok they are the fire that keeps me going through thick and thin. One thing I have learnt is tough parenting and know when you need to back off and act as if you dont care! My kids know I love them but sometimes I just have to say, I dont; care about the gossip that my daughter comes home from highschool with, I don;'t care what happens in wrestling, I dont care if she is giving me those puppy dog eyes wanting something so badly, I do care about my kids and I do listen when they have a problelm, but there are just things that us mothers can;t take on board all the time so we may give the appearence of not caring.. I am not the best mother in the world I work and have a busy life but my kids are clothed fed and loved.
Some kids think their parents don';t care if they don;t have the latest designer stuff or the latest toys.
2006-06-22 02:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms are never like that. Mom and pop are only two personalities who are always caring and the mom is bit more! Sometimes she has to act in order to have desired results but it is just acting part. She is always there to give her best including her life for her child.
2006-06-22 02:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by nicefriend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart is broken. I love my daughters but, I get no respect at all. My fiancee and I bought my eldest daughter a trailer for her and her two kids and since meeting her husband (after only knowing him 4 months) she moved him in, in two weeks. He told me to lay down and die before they married. He has been disrespectful to me and she doesn't care. They fight physically and the cops have been called. I have watched my grandchild for her since they're been born. I paid for her car insurance and lots of months I paid her car payment and lot rent. I love my daughter but, tonight was the last straw. Her and her husband were fighting over my one month old grandbaby and she quit breathing and her face turned red. The cops were called. My daugher called me and told me to come so, I did. Well, I asked the cops why they didn't call the welfare. So, now I'M THE *** HOLE! Can you explain that to me in English? Because I don't understand. My grandbaby has a knot on her head and the cops did nothing and I called the hospital and the cops back. But, nothing was done. I'm sick to my stomach. Please don't ask why moms always act like they don't care because I do. I think too much. Thanks
2006-06-22 02:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by honeybee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel like that, gently ask your mom about it. Now a days with so many parents not knowing how to live and act properly, they get so messed up as to not pay attention to anyone but themselves. But don't fret, it has nothing to do about you... Maybe if she doesn't make the effort or the time to connect with you, you should try to connect with her! Just because she is older doesn't make her wiser, smarter or more mature than you!
2006-06-22 02:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by blue_cobra_driver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very false perception that ALL mothers are loving and nuturing. That is simply not true. Giving birth to someone does not guarantee the mother loves their baby or cares about their well-being. With that said, some mothers do care and don't show it. Some don't care and show it. Don't believe anyone who tells you that it's impossible for a mother to not care about her child. Only you know your mother and her true intentions toward you.
2006-06-22 02:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, mine doesn't. lol, I'm lucky if she talks to me during dinner. she is so obsessed with the kids she had with her husband (my step dad) that she doesn't even care what i do. lol, i came home at 2 am last week and she didn't even notice. and then one time i got put in jail and she was supposed to come pick me up (i was released) and she forgot, so the cops drove me home 2 days later. loving mom eh? (btw, im 16, and she has only acted like this for 4 years)
2006-06-22 01:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Marines 4 Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a coping mechanism because they are afraid that if they let you get a rise out of them, that you will try to manipulate them in the future using the same issue.
2006-06-22 01:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mesa P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cares, she just might have to much going on right now to deal with another problem. maybe you should try talking to her and find out what is going on. good luck and take care
2006-06-22 02:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a mom there are moms who doesnt want to be moms. there are moms who cares so much lol
2006-06-22 02:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋