2006-06-21 18:51:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to understand that your fiancee's kids have to be her priority. If you really love her and want to commit to her, your job is and will be to support her. Let her take as much time for her kids as they need. Understand that her kids need her more than you do and help her, and if she is smart, her love for you will deepen. Finally, be a man and don't be so needy. Let her know that you are willing to let her make her kids a priority, and last of all, show her that you honor and respect her mother.
2006-06-21 19:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Leah L 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Kids should ALWAYS come first in any relationship, whether you're married, engaged, or just living together. Accept this and maybe you can work this relationship out. The love that a mom feels for her children is NOT the love that she feels for a fiance, husband, or a lover. You have no reason to feel jealous of her children. Back off! A moms love should be first. Hope this helps.
2006-06-21 20:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience pal, if you don't like being 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th, in line for some attention from the one that you love a need the most. Get the Hell out now, cause it will only get worse, and hurt lots more 7 years down the married trail. Especially if she's inseparable from MOM. .... Women of right mind ususally have healthy relationships with MoM, but when it time to severe the cord, the wackos don't, and let the marriage fail before seeing MOM as the problem......TXMIKE. good luck .!!
2006-06-21 19:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by New Investigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 06:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by ravelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you date someone with kids? You know the story when you date people with kids ,that's why I do not date men with kids, I have none of my own so I don't put myself through that kind of drama. I don't have to and I'm not going to. Simple as that.
2006-06-21 19:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by mothers finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been married to my kids' dad for almost 16 years and i put them before him and he puts them before me. With a person that has kids if they are a good parent , my opinion , puts their kids first and it is natural to give time to your kids over anyone else. It really depends on how she thinks you are coming between them. communication really works best sit and talk it out...
2006-06-21 18:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by bobby_brenda_slone2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common of course its her kids man! the fact that you already knew that she have kids and still you insisted to be with her. you should understand the situation and plus the fact that you should go along with her kids. thats the thing bout marrying a woman with kids if you cant accept their kids then you cant be with her.
2006-06-21 18:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most parents tend to put alot of attention into they're children im sure if she thought you were getting in the middle then she would not be with you i suggest you have a talk with her and ask her what she's not showing you much attention
2006-06-21 18:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by italianamami21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to understand her cos she's a mother and the kids needs her right now since they're still young.
2006-06-22 02:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the heck outta the way and quit being so selfish.
2006-06-21 18:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋