2006-06-21 18:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by Bossy Biotch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well IF u are gay and had a girl friend then be honest to her and dont break her heart . Ask her will she spend a life with a gay ? if she really loves u then she will understand U
2006-06-21 19:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE TRUTH. its really wrong to string people along. the same would go for a guy that was with a girl, but was in love with another girl, so gay or not the girl should know that his heart is not really with her in a romantic sense, and that he only loves her as a friend or whatever. i actually have seen gay guys maintain a relationship with a girl because they care about her so much as a friend, or because they want to hide and supress their homosexuality. i think it is so wrong and it is sad for both parties, because the longer you wait for the inevitable to happen (a breakup) the more hurt and chaos it will cause.
2006-06-21 18:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that she already has her thoughts on this. You may think that she doesn't have any idea, but I bet you she has thought about it. But by all means you should tell her, number one she deservse to know the truth. She should know that there is no future for her to be your girlfriend, girlfriend. And second you need to be the person that you are, life is too short to pretend that we are something that we are not because we are afraid of what others will think or say. But I am here to tell you we worrie about all these people and what they will think but when it comes down to it, who is with you every night and everyday. Be Your Self.
2006-06-21 19:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl wondering what you would tell your girl friend? Why would you have to say anything? Friends are friends.
If you're a guy with a girlfriend--what are you doing? If she is just a girl and a friend...again, friends are friends. Why would you feel compelled to tell? If she is a girlfriend...then, WHAT ARE YOU DOING? Are you trying to "hide" who you are? by having a girlfriend? If so, that is just plain cruel to your girlfriend...and you should be ashamed of yourself...fess up
2006-06-21 19:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Gardenia496 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you hassle yourself with putting yourself in an uncomfortable position, and breaking the girls heart... if you know you are gay? You should maybe break it off in a nice way, but yes tell her. what would you want if the tables were turned. it will all work out for the best if you are honest.
2006-06-21 18:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. just flat out say IM Gay to her. unless you are a girl than i dont understand your question.
2006-06-21 18:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
but I only have a girlfriend.
I'm not homosexual!
the word gay means happy.
try using a dictionary
happy flipping.
2006-06-21 18:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her the truth. but then, im not gay! yay for me and all the other straight people out there!!!
2006-06-21 18:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she needs to know, so she can get a real boyfriend.
If you do it right, then you can still be friends. Just don't lie to her.
2006-06-21 18:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Bio is true, you are way to young to know if you are gay.
2006-06-21 18:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋