i like this guy but the thing is he gets on my nerves. ok im big so i dont get flirted with a lot. at first i couldnt stand him but after a while i couldnt help but get a crush on him.the reason why i dont want to like him is because he always says acting dumb and i think he really doesnt like me at all that is trying to make fun of me. so i prbly wont see him for a long time but neways how do i get over him.
2006-06-21 18:13:36 · 11 answers · asked by jazz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hello jazzy! first of all i do not agree with you downing yourself for being a big girl. because contrary to what society says big girls are what guy are going for these days and to tell you the truth i have seen a lot of woman that is heavier than i am but at the same time there are very attractive take monique for ex. to me she is the epitome of a what a woman should look like so please know that you are beautiful when know one else thinks it.now as for the jerk why would you like someone who seems as if he is always hurting you? the key to not likeing him is to dislike him and from what you are explaining about his character it should come easy for you to dislike him. why you should dislike him is because he is disrespectful to you, and he doesn,t care about your feelings. so just dislike him is what i would tell you to do. good luck
2006-06-21 18:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You can't "get her to quit liking him." That will only drive her closer to him. If she has the capacity to have the intelligence of a career in pharmacology and a literary genius level, she probably has a hard time finding young men around her age who are on her level, and thus, is attracted to an opposite. Hopefully, she will tire of his inadequacies and will get bored with the guy before the relationship gets too serious. But as far as a mother being able to get her to stop liking him, well, that will definitely just make them cling together more. Loosen your grip and remember, your daughter is a smart young lady who may realize a lot more than you know about the guy.
2006-06-21 18:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny C & Hobie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not get over someone you think is making fun of you ? That's hurtful ! Just ex[plain I like joking with you but you have gone pass the playful part and I feel it's mean .Please stop calling me , at least for a while ,Then you decide if you miss him .He may never call again ( keep in mind ) .Say I care about you LIKE a brother ,That should do it ! Or talking to him might staighten his act up some and you'll enjoy the jokes and have an undrestanding . Caring about yourself first !
2006-06-21 18:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you don't like this guy, it's plain & simple that you should tell him so, that way, if he DOES like you for real, he'll go away, and if he was just trying to make fun of you (which is totally moronic of him) he'll get the point and realize that faking an attraction to you isn't helping his cause at all. So, if you do like him, pay closer attention to his habbits, see who he talks to and if they're mean people, there's a big chance that he's in league with them to hurt you. If not, give him a shot, the worst that could happen is it doesn't work.
2006-06-21 18:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by xtwilightpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so first off your pointing out that your big... A guy shouldn't like you for your size they should like you for who you are and whats inside of you... all guys can act dumb @ times.. just gotta get used to it.. && if you don't want to like them then .. Go hang out with a few friends go to a club or something... Avoid the person you don't want to like anymore.
2006-06-21 18:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by ash6lei2a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly decide if you really want to get over him.
he might just be a good match for you
once you've decided, look at it again!
make certain! it might come back to haunt you!
if you decide that you must
the best way is to find somebody else.
my advice:
is useless. I don't believe in "getting over people" I am to find the perfect person.
2006-06-21 18:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you eventually will get over him in yr own time. everyone is different to how they break up to how long the heart ache stays.
2006-06-21 18:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello? well my science teacher said to this guy in our class who doesn't read if you keep thinking you hate reading you will actually in life believe it so it is exactly the same if you keep thinking he is dumb you will actually believe it
2006-06-21 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by love me cutie! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep thinking that he is stupid. Its all in the mind. That worked for me.
2006-06-21 18:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one else
2006-06-21 18:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋