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my friend died and lately i haven't been eating! i'm super skinny... my boyfriend broke up with me because of it! am i anorexic? i'm 5ft. 4in. and i weigh 91 pounds! i'm sorry if this sounds stupid but am i?

2006-06-21 17:54:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Diet & Fitness

so i lost my friend... and lately i haven't been eating. last week when i weighed myself i was 91 pounds, i just weighed myself right now and i'm down to 85...

2006-06-21 18:04:45 · update #1

22 answers

I believe you are experiencing symptoms of depression. Talk to your parents or a counselor. Get some help. It is not healthy for you to be 5'4" and only 91 lbs. You may need clinical guidance to get back to eating healthy again. If you are anorexic, please get some help. This illness can be deadly. You are feeling the loss of your friend. I understand this. One of my closest friends committed suicide when I was in Jr. High and I lost my first love to a brain tumor last year. I also had an eating disorder from the stress. By the time I finally got help I was 14 years old 5'2, and I only weighed 73 lbs. Please talk to someone. It does help.

Here is a site you can calculate your BMI (body mass index) It will tell you what your weight should be for your height and age. http://kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/weight_height.html

2006-06-21 18:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderfulhaven 3 · 0 0

probably not anorexic. very skinny though. Anorexia is defined as an eating disorder that is characterize by a markedly reduced appetite or total adversion to food. The condition goes beyond out of control dieting. the feedback cycle adn drive to become thinner and thinner becomes a psycological obsession. This is a serious disorder that need appropriate medical advice. Anorexia is also known as Anorexia Nervosa.
The death of a friend or loved one can cause people to go off eating for a little bit.
If concerned talk to a docter.

2006-06-21 18:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Neal K 2 · 0 0

I agree, it does sound like you are still greiving which can take a long time to recover. The important thing is that you stay physically healthy while you heal emotionally. Try to eat healthy meals or snacks. Loss of appetite is normal but you should talk to your doctor and ask yourself if you are not eating because you are not hungry or some other reason. Your doctor might help you to answer these questions. Some people who suffer from traumatic experiences may develop eating disorders as a way to gain control over their lives. You should also surround yourself with people who can offer their support for you. Dealing with your ex-boyfriend will also test your endurance during this time but if you ask me it sounds like you are better off without him. Good luck during this time in your life.

2006-06-21 18:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Goodnight Gracie 1 · 0 0

I don't think you are anorexic exactly, but I do think that could be down the road. You do not sound stupid; you sound like the person you lost was important to you and you miss him/her, and that is completely understandable. I suggest meeting with a therapist and/ or dietician before anything gets too serious. I can say for sure though that you are underweight. Best of luck! =)

2006-06-27 04:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Emilyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 1 · 0 0

Yes, you are. I can understand the lack of eating, as when I was under stess a long time ago, I did the same thing. However, I tried to drink as much good stuff as I could. I drank juices and V8's and the like. After a few months of this, I got a job in a restaurant as a cook, and the cured it. They took a certain amount of money out per hour to cover the cost of food the employees ate. Made me mad, and I started eating.......

2006-06-21 18:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0 0

I am sorry for your loss, You are very important. You better find someone to work with, you maybe giving up on things. I'm 5'10, 55 and 240. an old fat ***. But I love to live, my mother passed when I was 11, 5'6 an 78 pounds. She was very sick. You are on my prayer list now " loving person". Hay- you have to help others so get well and do something important.

2006-06-21 18:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Juvenile 3 · 0 0

youre no longer fat in any respect. and anorexic individuals are really waiting to achieve weight fairly actual because even as they starve themselves, their body is going into starvation mode and something thats positioned into the body after that receives rapidly saved as fat. some ladies that are tiny can devour what ever they pick because they have intense metabolisms. now, anorexia is a psychological disease purely as a lot because that is an eating disease. it appears like you've fairly sturdy administration over it. so my advice is to resign it before that is going to develop right into a severe habit and also you develop into obsessive over it. its more advantageous risky than it type of feels. in case you nevertheless devour a lot less you would possibly want to imagine you've administration over it yet faster or later you would possibly want to get dizzy and bypass out for a 2d, get freaked out and attempt to devour and detect that your body rejects any food you install it and also you commence throwing up uncontrollably.. yeah, its risky and that is going to take administration over you before than you imagine. so provide up even as you nevertheless can and be healthy through determining an hour an afternoon, 6 hours a week. and eating healthy ingredients like culmination, veggitables, total wheats, and lean proteins (contained in the right parts) and that is going to artwork.. once you imagine about it, being healthy particularly is more straightforward than no longer eating. if youre having difficulty replacing your strategies, attempt incorperating one new element each and each and every week.. jointly with determining for a 1/2 an hour, eating more advantageous culmination and veggitables, or eating a lot less risky food. sturdy luck.

2016-10-20 12:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by gripp 4 · 0 0

you just lost a friend of yours, so you're depressed! Sometimes depression over such a loss can affect us so drastically that we don't eat, we lose weight because of it, and our social life suffers. If your boyfriend left you because you were depressed after the death of a friend, he wasn't a very good boyfriend. Hang in there. Talk to your friends, eat things you like to eat to motivate you to eat, and try to do things that take your mind off of your friend

2006-07-02 14:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0 0

sounds like your depressed, i wouldn't say that your anorexic. If its been plaguing you for some time then yeah perhaps you are, but due to the circumstances may be a hard case of depression. but i do agree that if it continues, or you truly believe you are anorexic then seek a medical professional. truly the first step is to acknowledge that you are truly anorexic if you are then you have made the first step to recovery.

2006-06-21 18:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by AzN 3 · 0 0

If you keep eating, you won't be anorexic. With your height, you can be 120 LBS and still look good. Don't worry, you have a long way to go before anybody consider as fat.

2006-06-21 18:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by THINKMAAN 5 · 0 0

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